Avoiding any serious relationship

[arfie]

@MeTSD
don't accuse me of experting, but methinks we might have a lower divorce rate if married folks focused on their individual selves, as well. healthy relationships are comprised of healthy individuals. i believe self care is exactly what all of us need. i have more energy and presence of mind for caring about the world when i am well-cared for myself. just believing. . .

 

[MeTSD]

@MeTSD
don't accuse me of experting, but methinks we might have a lower divorce rate if married folks focused on their individual selves, as well. healthy relationships are comprised of healthy individuals. i believe self care is exactly what all of us need. i have more energy and presence of mind for caring about the world when i am well-cared for myself. just believing. . .

I was talking to a friend today

" I'm going to focus on me, work on being ME, being stronger individually as me, so I can be stronger WITH someone else. Not FOR them"