This will be my last post ever on this site

[captain jigglypuff]

I keep messing up by misinterpreting things here and I don’t mean to do it no apparently I’m “so inappropriate.” I’m going to delete my account here since I’m apparently not welcomed here. I’ll unregister by the end of Thursday. Goodbye.

 

[OceanSpray]

I keep messing up by misinterpreting things here and I don’t mean to do it no apparently I’m “so inappropriate.” I’m going to delete my account here since I’m apparently not welcomed here. I’ll unregister by the end of Thursday. Goodbye.

These things happen, I don’t think you need to leave over it.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

All I ever do is make people angry and hate me over misunderstandings and other mistakes. I should never allowed myself to state any opinions or how I feel. I knew that if I tried being myself, people would hate me here as usual. It always happen. I just feel so stupid thinking different this time. Maybe my abuser was right. Maybe all I ever do is f up and ruin everyone’s lives that talk to me.

 

[WinnieThePoohChris]

If you stop trying, your abuser is still abusing you. Keep trying, you cannot connect and be understood by everyone. May need to change some things, try to work on them. Small steps forward still steps forward.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

If you stop trying, your abuser is still abusing you. Keep trying, you cannot connect and be understood by everyone. May need to change some things, try to work on them. Small steps forward still steps forward.

But what’s the point if all I do is always make people extremely angry at me for making mistakes?

 

[WinnieThePoohChris]

Is everyone angry?

 

[WinnieThePoohChris]

And is it anger?

 

[Survivor3]

But what’s the point if all I do is always make people extremely angry at me for making mistakes?

I don't hate you @captainjigglypuff I've quite enjoyed seeing you around and you've interacted very well. Who do you think you've made angry and what specific mistakes are you talking about?

 

[Survivor3]

All I ever do is make people angry and hate me over misunderstandings and other mistakes. I should never allowed myself to state any opinions or how I feel. I knew that if I tried being myself, people would hate me here as usual. It always happen. I just feel so stupid thinking different this time. Maybe my abuser was right. Maybe all I ever do is f up and ruin everyone’s lives that talk to me.

You can't get on with everyone in life. Its impossible. Don't leave because of one or two misinterpretations.

 

[Sideways]

All I ever do is make people angry and hate me over misunderstandings and other mistakes. I should never allowed myself to state any opinions or how I feel. I knew that if I tried being myself, people would hate me here as usual. It always happen. I just feel so stupid thinking different this time. Maybe my abuser was right. Maybe all I ever do is f up and ruin everyone’s lives that talk to me.

This is something that you could throw some CBT at. There’s cognitive distortions in here that don’t need to be dictating how you choose to act. And that’s definitely something that can improve, or even resolve, with targeted therapy:)

 

[Movingforward10]

But what’s the point if all I do is always make people extremely angry at me for making mistakes?

I can’t see you making people extremely anger on here and I wonder if that is how you perceive it because of the past. I.e. this is a trigger for you.

We all misunderstand at times. That’s being human isn’t it? We will be things wrong. It’s learning to be ok with that. And learning to be ok when someone corrects that.

 

[OceanSpray]

Hey so I know where you’re getting that impression from. I can tell you right now it’s not you. Some forum users have a lot of their own work to do on themselves and how they approach and talk to people. It was an overreaction from that person and I hope they see this and apologize but even if they don’t, it’s one person and they have their own issues. Don’t quit a site just because they need their own therapy.