I did make the decision to try Cymbalta the day following your post Girl3. He'd asked me if I'd consider trying it the night before while on the phone with him and I'd then feared no way.
The next morning, I think my anxiety, the rush of getting there, being there and the fear of not being able to effectively communicate made me forgetful afterwards so minus anything discussed, but I did consider very seriously what you posted and with a new willingness brought up Cymbalta, saying I would try it in a low dose.
Also, I asked him if it would help me with my anxiety, ...and he said yes.
I'm yet to take it firstly because I didn't remember if he told me what time of day its taken and then when I found out today that it could be taken anytime, I'm postponing it still, ...just briefly, until I am more brave, perhaps reading a bit more about it first.
Still with the pain, but at least its reoccurring and then passing for now and not so constant, painful and stressful as before today and just too difficult.
Very soon, I'm gonna be more brave.