Was Verbally Abused Right After Therapy Today.

[ReachingOutJ]

And now my ex is texting me saying "I care," but he still stays with a women who sleeps in a separate bedroom, and it is a sexless relationship. He used me.

 

[Chava]

I like @Kefira 's idea of using this to create a boundary with him...even taking those words, or talking to your therapist about how to do this. Would that be possible? He sounds like a complete leach.

(and if your ex is in another relationship, even if it sucks, probably keep him out of it..??)

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

If you rent, explain the situation to your landlord, and have he/she evict him.
And your ex doesn't care. If the person was of any real quality, he wouldn't be your "ex".

 

[Kefira]

he says he is sorry after he hurts me, but... his apologies never hold water.

That's a classic red flag of an abuse cycle.

Sometimes the problem solves itself (meaning the leech leaves) as soon as you set a boundary and make yourself a less appealing target. If nothing else, it might be a step in the right direction for you feeling as though you have choices you can make.

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

Too bad you aren't nearby. I would throw an old tater sack over that asshole's head in the middle of the night one night, and he would come up "missing in action"..

 

[ReachingOutJ]

He's 6'3" 265 lbs of man. You'd need a big tater sack.

 

[StarChild]

Buy him some vaseline and kneepads, and show him a busy streetcorner...

Bwhahahaha! I've never heard this one! Not rolling on the floor, but on my bed, and am waking up the whole apartment building, because I'm laughing so hard! :roflmao::laugh::roflmao:

I know I'm probably a doormat for thinking this way

...No, you're not a doormat dear @ReachingOutJ, but you actually let him make one of you, unfortunately. This is just my personal impression; but the very first thing to work on with your therapist is, to learn. how you can rid yourself off of him. Otherwise, there won't be any improvement in your personal situation...

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

He's 6'3" 265 lbs of man. You'd need a big tater sack.

..just makes a bigger splash when he gets dumped off a f*cking bridge..

 

[ReachingOutJ]

I wish I were a stronger person, like I used to be. Ever since my breakdown, I have turned into an emotional marshmallow.

 

[ReachingOutJ]

Whispering_Truth, I was raped by my own half brother.

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

I wish I were a stronger person, like I used to be. Ever since my breakdown, I have turned into an...

Seriously, get rid of him as soon as you can. It will only get worse. See an attorney if you have to. He is 265 lbs of pure sh*t.

 

[ReachingOutJ]

If I had a friend who had no pets, I would go and stay with them. I am allergic. :(