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Medical Botched Circumcision

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MIT. Stalstanding and anarchy my heart is going out in pain for the " kid you" and I wish I could kiss t...

Morning @Nikie! How is today? Thanks for your posts. You are the only woman who has had the grit to comment on the thread I'm on with Mit and Anarchy, and we appreciate your words. It's not a purely male subject. The men affected by hypospadias and other "defects" are everywhere, have families, and the lucky ones have wives or girlfriends. And thy all need to know that we are not freaks.
 
Sending hugs to you Mit

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@Anarchy, @Mit, and @Nikie, I have just opened a new thread on our subject. See "Genital Surgery: Ever hear of hypospadias?" At some point, if people pick up on this, I might need help moving some of what we've already said to that thread, but I don't know how. Take care, and thanks for everything you do.
 
Thanks lucky duck.
So many people in the English speaking world have been gaslit into believing that genital mutilation has even a hint of medical merit.

Ffs, soap and water is hardly scarce.

C1900 propaganda by an unholy alliance of doctors looking for ego trips and easy money, and by post mil Christians, looking to create the "milenium" by stamping out "sin" ( smutty publications, drink, drugs, masturbation, enjoyable sex...) , is still being believed.

Females suffer too
A quick comparison of American teenage / college humour with European shows the extent of sexual dysfunction which Americans accept as normal.

I've had to learn to be extra careful and gentle, so I don't cause friction burns on my partners and myself, and to avoid the far more frequent doses of cystitis that my partners got with me compared to previous intact partners.

I find it hugely difficult not to hate my mother for her role in my PTSD, in denying me so much of what should have been the most affirming parts of life relationships and my body.

I've been in constant pain the past few days, it looks like the irritation of the unprotected and damaged opening of my urethra that I've had on and off for the past 4 months has returned, more visits to the profession that caused the problem, more exposing myself to them, more risk of being hurt again by careless handling of an injury that was a direct result of being mutilated.

Again ffs, if the bastards had sucked it, they would have been guilty of a criminal offence.
Mutilate it, set me on the road to PTSD, blight my relationships, give my lovers cystitis, f*ck my relationship with my mother half a century later, and supposedly they were saving me.

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C1900 propaganda by an unholy alliance of doctors looking for ego trips and easy money, and by post mil Christians, looking to create the "milenium" by stamping out "sin" ( smutty publications, drink, drugs, masturbation, enjoyable sex...) , is still being believed

Ain't it the truth! I grew up in the Bible Belt, where any kind of pleasure is still publicly suspect. (Although, hypocrisy is rampant because of the repression.)

A practical question, only if you don't mind, is whether you have found any successful lubricant to reduce risk of chafing for you or your partners. Water- based lubes are so bad about drying out! I've found that Albolene is excellent, but is petroleum based and not good with latex. Is this too personal?
 
So by this I just want to say mothers are very very sensitive of how there kids feel and if we can't do anyting for them it brake our hearts. .. :hug::hug:

You're right there. My mother was a simple country girl, but she knes how to love. She and I almost died together when she bore me. She was sick and weak, and was left in hard labor for 12 hours trying to push me out while her doctor went home. The staff called him to say she couldn't do it. The doctor finally came back angry and drunk, and roughly delivered me with forceps. When they looked at my bruised-black head, they figured I was brain-damaged. (Maybe they were right!).
 
I've been in constant pain the past few days, it looks like the irritation of the unprotected and damaged opening of my urethra that I've had on and off for the past 4 months has returned, more visits to the profession that caused the problem, more exposing myself to them, more risk of being hurt again by careless handling of an injury that was a direct result of being mutilated.

This might be a dumb question.. But can't they do something like plastic surgery and rebuilt the skin? Or just some for protection??
I mean my friend had Breast cancer and they took both her boobs of , then they took from her stomach fat and rebuilt the most beautiful boobs with nipples and all ..

Or maybe something like a plastic leg or arm, just a cap you can put over to protect that sensitive part??
 
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