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Heather
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Met with the rape crisis counselor there is no new news to report re: police investigation yet. I just hate discussing it with her it makes me feel sick. Haven't heard from that stupid DCF caseworker - THANK GOD.
Rape crisis advocate is going to put calls in to both police and DCF caseworker to see where things are. Still don't know if they're gonna open a case on me, I guess no news is good news.
Took my daughter to a birthday party today. It was with one of her friends that lives a few houses down from where we used to live. I asked the mother in a round about way, how many kids would be there, which ones were coming and when she rattled off the names asked her if that was all the kids.
Trying to make sure that Selena was NOT going to be one of the invitees.
Told her that I was pulling Nicole from school and she said her daughter had told her that and asked if everything was ok? I ended up telling her what happened to Nicole.
She then told me that (not sure when this happened, but recently) Selena showed up on their doorstep. Ranting and raving about me and Nicole. It was her husband that answered the door and he told her that this had nothing to do with them. And he didn't appreciate her screaming at him and basically told her to take a hike.
I really wanted to ask him exactly what she said but decided not to press the issue. I don't know if Selena was mad because she wasn't invited to the party?
My thoughts, she shouldn't be invited. Why should Nicole and Brianna miss out because of her. She is the perpetrator.
Asked Brianna's dad if she's still out there playing like nothing happened. And he said, "yes". It infuriates me.
One interesting thing my therapist said was not to blame Tina (Selena's mom) for not knowing. ('cause I really don't think she knew what was happening). But it's appropriate to blame her for NOT taking responsibility or her daughter taking responsibility.
End of Rant.
Rape crisis advocate is going to put calls in to both police and DCF caseworker to see where things are. Still don't know if they're gonna open a case on me, I guess no news is good news.
Took my daughter to a birthday party today. It was with one of her friends that lives a few houses down from where we used to live. I asked the mother in a round about way, how many kids would be there, which ones were coming and when she rattled off the names asked her if that was all the kids.
Trying to make sure that Selena was NOT going to be one of the invitees.
Told her that I was pulling Nicole from school and she said her daughter had told her that and asked if everything was ok? I ended up telling her what happened to Nicole.
She then told me that (not sure when this happened, but recently) Selena showed up on their doorstep. Ranting and raving about me and Nicole. It was her husband that answered the door and he told her that this had nothing to do with them. And he didn't appreciate her screaming at him and basically told her to take a hike.
I really wanted to ask him exactly what she said but decided not to press the issue. I don't know if Selena was mad because she wasn't invited to the party?
My thoughts, she shouldn't be invited. Why should Nicole and Brianna miss out because of her. She is the perpetrator.
Asked Brianna's dad if she's still out there playing like nothing happened. And he said, "yes". It infuriates me.
One interesting thing my therapist said was not to blame Tina (Selena's mom) for not knowing. ('cause I really don't think she knew what was happening). But it's appropriate to blame her for NOT taking responsibility or her daughter taking responsibility.
End of Rant.
