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Amethist you are doing so good, I am so proud of you. Talk about grace under pressure. You deserve alot of good. Big hugs.

 

[amethist]

Thanks gizmo

Not always easy, but I usually manage somehow.

 

[amethist]

What heck is the world going to throw at us now.

Just got hubby balanced on the medication, only foggy brained for a few hours in the mornings, and much clearer as the day goes on. His head had stopped running at a hundred miles an hour and this morning the boiler packs in.

Now he thinks we need a new boiler. Do we heck, it's not that old, so it will be fixable, but try telling him that right now.

Back to racing mind and the "What if's"

 

[Deleted member 12723]

((((Amethist))) I am thinking of you. So sorry this had to happen now. I can identify to telling and being blocked. My husband is having halluxinations and delusions and false accuses me of dealing cocaine out of the house. He does not belive me.

Being calm and reassuring seems to be keeping him calm.

I am sad that your husband is back to the racing mind and what ifs. It is like talking to a wall. Sending you courage and healing energy to your husband to slow down. Big hugs and fresh hope for you. Hang in there. It will get taken care of. Then he will find something else to worry about. I hope he calms down for you so you can get it fixed. That would be so much cheaper. Sometimes my husband says something and I doubt it and he is right.

How expensive are boilers? Do you have a place that will come out and fix it? I wish you the very best. Take good care of you. I am sorry it has been going on for so long. You have been doing the right things.

 

[amethist]

We have a plumber coming out tomorrow gizmo. I dont think it is a big job, and definitely not needing replacing.

Just hubby blowing this up into a bigger drama than what it is.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Well hang in there and take good care of you. My heart goes out to you. You are amazing at how well you handle these things. Your husband is so lucky to have you. Big hugs.

 

[Toria]

Oh don't talk to me about boilers and central heating!!! Bane of my life!!!!

We needed a new one back in 2009 and not a day has gone by when it has not leaked, not worked or simply poured water out of the back of the house!!!!! At the weekend it developed a mind of it's own and switched the heating on full blast at 2 o'clock in the morning!!!

Sorry - not making you feel much better am I???

Fingers crossed that you can get it fixed and sorted and Husband's mind put to rest...

 

[amethist]

Well if it don't get fixed and hubby throws another wobbly, holly tree will have boiler buried underneath it and him hung from it by his #####.

;) I am in full swing with the humour this morning. :D

 

[Toria]

Hmmm, is he projecting his anxiety...? Almost sound as if I might know what I'm talking about!!!

 

[amethist]

His anxiety is up again because of the boiler, but I am just letting it all go over my head today.

So what ever he feels is not effecting me one bit today. :tup:

 

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Amethist can I borrow a cup of what you are having? I so admire you. You leanred to see the humor in it and you do not take it personally. I want this for myself. You have workied so hard on yourself and it shows. You glow with good health.

I am very happy for you. Doing a happy dance on my keyboard for you.

 

[amethist]

Plumber came and is having problems even getting it to turn on, so will phone the manufacturers tomorrow to get some info, then he will come back and have another go.

Oh it gets better all the time LOL.