OK, I will warmly accept KP's first item for me. I appreciate that!
2) I try to live by the "other" cup analogy. That my cup is half full and not half empty. Attitude is so much of how you feel.
3) Having said #2, I can acknowledge that sometimes that doesn't work. Sometimes the first cup supersedes the second cup metaphor. Not that mine has the PTSD stress, but certainly "feces occurs" (S#!t Happens :eek:) and I get overloaded.
4) #3 brings me to the fact that I am human. I am a common man.
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