He seems to be a little pissed at me because I asked for a couple days to wrap my head around everything. Its reasonable I think! He's been able to manage his stressors and his drinking really well, and I do understand the insane amount of extra stress this past month has dumped on him, but if its going to work I need to place some more firm boundaries. There have always been a few based on my own trauma issues and certain things for him as well, plus some picked up and adapted along the way, but this...wow!
