Well I certainly have no desire for confrontation, & no anger to vent, but I would be thrilled if I could afford to sky dive, or learn trapeeze, or things others don't like. I don't have any fear of them. Mind you, I always liked heights & speed, & was a thrillseeker as a young teen on up. But I do the same (unconsciously) as @MaybeOneDay said, sometimes I find myself in situations. Sometimes I'm just too exhausted to be scared, sometimes there's no alternative to the situation, sometimes by the time I'm scared it's too late/ up to fate.