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Been Found By A Rescue Dog

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Give him kisses for me!
Thank you @ladee. I gave Hank a bunch of kisses for you. You are so right - he was being a dog - I think for the first time in his life he was feeling joy and that uninhibited ...dogness.. that all dogs should have and many don't get to ever experience.

It could be only my interpretation but after the police left I thought I saw a great deal of confidence in the way Hank was walking and moving. He was alert the rest of the night but he was relaxed and finally came over and slept next to me on the footstool while I did some computer work. He doesn't often come up on the footstool and this was very special. He hasn't been up on the footstool since so I think he knew something special had happened and that he did an incredibly good job.
 
Thanks @gizmo

I really hope the guy leaves you alone from now on, and with his new knowledge that you have Hank, he may think twice before trying it again.

Yes, one of the officers that night was patting Hank and said incredulously, 'why would he try something stupid like that with this guy around', meaning why would the guy show up like that when I had Hank.

As he asked that it hit me that the guy had no idea I had Hank - his face while he was pinned against the fence showed very clearly he was stunned and wasn't expecting this new development! no matter how drunk he was - I think his predicament registered to him very clearly!
 
My Canadian colleagues did the right thing. They could have charged that guy for trespassing and damaging your fence but if he was that drunk, there's always the question if he was criminally liable. I'm still glad everything turned out that well.

Thank you @Anrish

The hurt ego stuff really got all my warning lights flashing.

The police did ask me that night what my plans were re the damage he did to the fence and trespassing but the way they said it I knew there would be problems because of the circumstances. He actually admitted he thought he broke the gate and then offered to pay for it. I told the police I only now wanted the record and not to have him contact me again.

It turned out well and I am so glad neither Hank nor I were hurt.
 
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Thank you so much for updating us on Hank. He SOOOO deserved that steak and then some!! Several hugs and good boys for him. Huge hugs to both of you!! You both definately belong together!! Lucky boy that his needs are understood and met to give him the confidence to be a dog.

Good for him that he stood up for you with that guy! He seems to be confident that he can take care of you in return as his pack.

Every update is an inspiring short story of recovery.
 
Every update is an inspiring short story of recovery.

Thank you @Ellabella44 - your post helped me to think about how Hank came into my life, and I into his. I am not a 'sharing' person in the sense of my personal details in my day to day life. I really like hearing other people talk and tell their stories plus I think my own story is kind of uninteresting.

I read a lot and I would read stories about relationships like mine and Hank's and I would think how amazing those relationships were. Never in my wildest dreams did I ever think I would get to experience this. Not only that but that I would find a place where I could share all this and have people understand how profound a relationship like this truly is for someone living with PTSD.

I am grateful to be able to talk about Hank and me and have you folks know how deep this runs; how this relationship can heal so many of the old wounds, has healed many of the old wounds, and has also brought up a lot of pain that I can finally look at, feel and let go.

I thank you all so much.
 
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone. I posted this in another thread but thought I could also post here so I can give people a quick update about my big guy Hank. I have more coming but I wanted to post this as soon as I was able to get longer computer time.

Christmas Day I went for my annual 10k run. I have Hank running with me now, well, he's up to about 7k and I trot the rest of the way with him. This is first time I have ever had anyone I love and trust run with me on Christmas Day.

We hit the trail and were about 4k in when I spotted a woman sitting with her back against the public bathroom wall. She was sitting on the cold concrete, the washrooms were closed of course but as I got closer I could see she was crying.

I tried to make eye contact with her but she didn't look so I thought to maybe give her privacy and we ran on. Something about her being there all alone bothered me so Hank and I circled back around until we were a few metres away from her.

I called to her and asked if she was ok. She still didn't look at me but she nodded her head. I said 'I am sorry, its a stupid question but it doesn't look like you're ok. Is there something I can do?'

I made a mental checklist of what I had brought...biscuits for Hank, a protein bar for me and two quarters for the phone in case.

But in the short few seconds this conversation was taking place, Hank was moving towards her until he had stretched his leash and was pulling a bit to get closer to her. As I was having Hank heel, she said, 'it's ok, I used to have a dog too when i was growing up.' I moved closer to her as there was no way Hank was not going over to her. She reached her arms up to Hank and as he approached her she buried her face in his neck. She made no sound at first but then I could see her shoulders shaking and I knew she was sobbing. Then came the sounds.

I moved over to where she was sitting and sat down beside her on the concrete and just sat beside her with my head back against the wall while she sobbed and hugged Hank.

I think we were there for a good 10 minutes before she was able to talk and brought her head up from Hank's ruff. He had laid down in front of her and he did not move once through the entire exchange.

Finally she apologized for wetting Hank's fur and we chatted really briefly for a few seconds about Christmas being hard and her not knowing what to do. Then she reached up and cupped Hank's muzzle and gave him a very gentle kiss on his nose. She called Hank her Christmas Angel. I asked again if there was anything I could do for her and she said that hugging Hank was the most perfect thing she could do and it was what she needed.

I said I would be running back the same way with Hank and if she needed another hug we would be there. We said our goodbyes and we continued on the run. On the way back I looked for her the rest of the trail but she had gone. I hope she is ok.

This is Hank's act of kindness. He healed a portion of me with what he did.
 
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I knew you were going to post. I have 'felt' you and Hank all day!. He is such an Earth Angel. How awesome he knew what she needed. Who knows what strength he gave her to possibly find some answers on her journey.
Thank you for sharing. I have been waiting all day.
Hank has given you so much and you allow him to give to others.
And what you have received has no words because it's a God thing. God things don't have words.
I so love Hank and I so love you.
Thank you. It goes deeper than that But that will have to suffice. I know you understand.
 
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