Being Bitter Towards Men

[Deleted member 38644]

I'm more bitter towards men and it's not on purpose. I am not sure if it's the tons of men that my mom brought through the house all my life. I am already bitter towards people today, including angry. I don't choose to do it but it's how I feel. I don't care about a person life around me nor what they do. I was completely bitter towards one guy. I told him he looks like a donkey. I grew up angry, never happy. But only this is a different kind of angry. I hate smiling I don't like smiling. I walk around all day with a mad face. I don't mean that be bitter towards anyone but it just happens.

 

[Ronin]

I'm a guy and I'm bitter against men too.

... Really, there's one thing like bitterness because life, & it ain't the same kind of hate.
Your bitterness against them ain't harm them. Their hate toward you? Most likely yes.

 

[Deleted member 38644]

I'm a guy and I'm bitter against men too.

... Really, there's one thing like bitterness because life, & i...

I don't mean at all to be really bitter. When I talk to them I wrather throw insults because I'm comfortable that way when I shouldn't. I can't handle communication at all. I haven't talked in so long I'm beginning to wonder is this bottled up anger? it's like I'm in this disgusting mood I'm comfortable with and being bitter is what I feel. I just don't care about nothing and society. My mom had brought tons of men's inside the house left from right

 

[Bristol]

I find I'm bitter and confrontational to men cause it makes me feel safer, like they know not to mess with me, could it be something like that for you?

 

[Deleted member 38644]

I find I'm bitter and confrontational to men cause it makes me feel safer, like they know not to mess w...

Absolutely I can barely handle communication. I just don't want something to happen to me. I told him all men are the same and etc because it makes me feel more safer. My anxiety picked up. I feel safe and better insulting you .I just don't know what made me do bitter.

 

[Deleted member 38644]

When I have kids or get married I want them to know that it's the only safest place for me. I don't want them to be bitter like me. It's like a hard way of getting into my life.

 

[Keming]

when i'm bitter like that it's because i'm wrapped in a belief that someone expects something of me, something i reject.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I am not bitter against a particular gender, but towards their actions, especially if such actions are calculated. I have bad experiences with both genders and have to say the U.S. is just one screwey country, sorry that is how it is.

Growing up in Europe people just behaved totally different, did mostly what was right.

The American men that I have to watch every day are certainly the biggest turnoff any woman could ever wish for, hihi, seriously your feelings are totally normal.

I grew up with men that did the right thing, except some family members. I was able to be friends, real friends with guys with not ever having to worry about my physical or sexual safety, was able to totally count on males in my home country without ever second guessing them.

I also was able to rely on wise men when I was still a silly teenager.......remember a time when just 16 used to have a couple of buddies at work, most of them trustworthy (not all). But one bud I really liked as a teen, worked together with him. I was sixteen, he was married, in his thirties.

One day our whole work group went out to celebrate carneval, got loaded. Remember sitting in the group, favorite bud sitting beside me. We were all drunk as skunks. Then the teen and the bud got a little chummy, the guys around us started to egg us on: come on, go a little further, it is carneval.

But that guy was a great teacher, he showed a young teen girl what is right: he did not want to take advantage of me, the teen and he certainly did not want to hurt the wive he loved at home. So he very gently, despite the fact we were all drunk to a stupor, made it to be understood that he was not that kind of guy and he let me know too that it was unacceptable.

Not before, during, or after did this bud ever treat me with disrespect, always treated me with the highest respect, knew what was right, he had class, what a sweetie. I totally respected that guy even more after he turned down the silly teenager girl.

Looking back to those days I think to myself: that is how it should be, that is really how it should be........
So, I was able to rely on guys to do the right thing for themselves and for me too, a rare chance for a young girl to learn what really matters......