Relationship Being nice or being an idiot?

[PreciousChild]

Thanks @Friday. There is probably a little bit of the pendulum swing at work, but I'll take it as part of the process of getting over the relationship. He's not constantly triggered at every moment, but enough where I'm getting a very clear confirmation that it wasn't ALL me. I think that's important because I was taking feedback from him about how I was doing in the relationship, and the mirror that he reflected back with was very distorted. It's a healthy sign that I'm able to evaluate myself independently from him.

Yes, I remember the phase when rainbow farts! haha.