I don’t like ChickFlicks as a general rule :wtf: That said? There’s an overly simplistic yet brilliantly done scene/arc in Runaway Bride (Julia Roberts) where the journalist asks each of her exFiancées how she likes her eggs. They each replied “Same as me...” scrambled, over easy, hard boiled, etc. Journalist asks her, and she can’t answer. She doesn’t know. Cut to the next scene with 50 zillion plates of eggs all over the place, as she’s finding out how she likes her eggs.
My life has taken several 180 degree turns, and that’s the answer in a nutshell. You have to try things. AND make judgments about them, rather than distance yourself from them (and not just “do” them because blah blah blah... you’re supposed to, it’s easier, someone else loves it, or any of dozens of reasons... but practice forming an opinion, altering opinions, deepening your own understanding, etc.).
It’s the one of the differences between surviving and living. Dealing with whatever, which you totally can because you have; and purposefully choosing, getting to know yourself through the prism of experience & priority. What do you value? What do you seek out? What do you love-like-don’t care about one way or the other-dislike-hate? How do you live your life when you can choose to live it any way you wish? What are you? Who do you want to be? How can you get there? What’s not quite, but almost right? Who do you admire? Big questions. All of them. And others. That you answer by doing.
My 2.02
