So true @sadgirl. It's very overwhelming. In my angry moments, I call him out on it and hold his feet to the fire. I'm sure he hates it, but it's my way of getting out what I need to say and if he never speaks to me again be damned. I personally think he needs to know how those actions affect me and can make a person feel.
But this is my relationship and I know it wouldn't go over at all with others. I do think he ends up processing and thinking about what I say in my messages eventually. Even if it takes weeks! But yeah, he pretty much hates it. So I am working on it. May continue if I or see decide to keep at it. I know i havent decided this yet.
Sorry @sadgirl , I know this is so hard and you seem to be really working hard to keep moving forward. Come here to process, but i have found coming on here too much can keep me attached and empathize too much. Can keep you hanging on if you're not careful.
But this is my relationship and I know it wouldn't go over at all with others. I do think he ends up processing and thinking about what I say in my messages eventually. Even if it takes weeks! But yeah, he pretty much hates it. So I am working on it. May continue if I or see decide to keep at it. I know i havent decided this yet.
Sorry @sadgirl , I know this is so hard and you seem to be really working hard to keep moving forward. Come here to process, but i have found coming on here too much can keep me attached and empathize too much. Can keep you hanging on if you're not careful.