Sexual Assault Does It Count As Rape?

[Sweetz]

I recently confronted my rapist, who called me "f*cking crazy" - his argument was that whenever I said n...

That is rape hun no questions about it he manipulated you and pressured you into doing it learn about manipulation techniques abusive people use it will help you so much it did me

 

[Mona]

Submission does not equal consent. Apparently there are now laws being written on this very issue. I found the website "Aphrodite Wounded"useful. I had a coercive rape experience when I was a teenager and it took me decades before I was willing to acknowledge it was rape. I too lay there and let him do what he wanted. I focused on the ceiling tiles. Then I felt ashamed and guilty when he complained i wasn't any good. How sad is that. I never let him do it again. Instead I learned how to masturbate him. The fact I kept going out with him makes me sick now to think about it. But I didn't feel like I deserved any better. After all he was so kind and generous at other times, I owed him right? Wrong! I owed it to myself to get out of that relationship and I did once he left town for work. I wrote a letter. And he still tried to get me back and tried to talk me into sex. He even proposed. Thank the good lord I said no, even though I was desperate to get out of my home environment. Going away for college saved me.

 

[highwaybeauty]

I recently confronted my rapist, who called me "f*cking crazy" - his argument was that whenever I said n...

You may have consented at the beginning, but you changed your mind. So that is considered rape. Just because it wasn't penile penetration, doesn't mean it wasn't rape. It most definitely was.