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I agree with that piratelady, it does depend on where and what company.

I do believe there has been huge strides inregards to this in the US. You are right not everyone gets the concept of equality. I like how you worded that. Thank you.
 
Next month I will be participating in a rally thing on campus. We will be protesting on campus about how men will not rape us, blah blah blah. I am looking forward to getting my anger out with that.

Rally's like this turn sex abuse into a woman vs man thing when it is anything but. It turns women into man haters while sidelining men who have been sexually abused as well as women who were sexually abused by other women. I was brainwashed in college until my anger over being sidelined by the very people who were supposed to support me made me realize that I cannot support the feminist cause any longer. I honestly believe that suffragettes are turning over in their graves over the direction of the women's movement. It used to be about equality, fighting for what's best for all. But now, it's not, and as a result, many of us are disillusioned by the whole thing.
 
We have a huge problem on our campus with date rape. It is basically taking a stand against that. I should have clarified it.

Lots of female students have been drugged particularly by fraternities. Not even that, but gang raped. It is very problematic here.
 
The best sign I have seen said "I was raped because I encountered a rapist, not through my own actions". Sexual assault, while it does happen to men, is gendered violence most often committed against women. Men raping women is seen as being ok. There are sexual fantasies that are popular that revolve around the rap of a woman. These are widely accept in adult circles. There are jokes about men raping women. Men raping men is something many people see as horrific, which it is. It isn't justified. It isn't promoted as the stuff of fantasies. It isn't joked about. I do feel that straight men who are raped by other men have a harder time as individuals than women who are raped by men. In saying that, it is still very much gendered violence.
 
I completely agree, nicely worded. Yes, I can see how men being raped by men is severely damaging. You are right it is not joked about and taking more seriously than women being raped.

Oh the jokes are horrible. My fiancees would play a video game and when he was getting his butt kicked in it he would say, "I am getting raped." I went off so fast so quick and spoke my mind. He apologized and has not ever used that word again.

It is disguisting to joke about. Gender differences really interests me but confuses me as well.
 
I think economically and professionally gender inequality (particularly financially) is very relevant in many areas. For example, where I live one is paid more to raise a pig than a child (seriously). But perhaps the disparity is widening more in social class than gender. Many people do not make a living wage, and these are often areas of service, or child care, or physical care of any others for that matter (which predominantly are populated by women).

That being said, I love the differences between men and women, I think they are complementary. I also think men suffer in ways, and through the expectations of others, that many do not acknowledge or understand.

I have had to deal with a lot of "perv's" in my life. All were men. Some were child abusers, to do or try to do what they did to a child, I don't think it was a 'gender' issue. I've worked hard not to hate men or to paint them all with the same brush. I think rape and attempted rape are crimes of violence, control and power. Throwing in alcohol or drugs doesn't help, or being outnumbered.

I hate though the fact that a man can physically overpower me, because of their size.

But, I think for the men who would not do such a thing, or would speak out, or defend someone, or protect them, they make up for a lot. That's more a definition of a 'man' to me, especially in relation to what it means to be a woman. JMHO.
 
I agree junebug.

I believe their are really wonderful men out there-i know some. I do think they make up for it. I do think there is a masculinity issue with nice men speaking up and out against bad men. Not that some don't stick up because some do, but I really believe it is hard for some nice guys to defend us.

If any of you get a chance. Look up this documentary called, "Bro code." It talks about that issue about good men having issues defending women because of society. Very interesting.
 
Thank goodness for the womens movement. The term "rule of thumb" originated as the term used in the courts to determine if a man abused his wife or children. As long as the welt or mark was not wider than his thumb, he was innocent. He was permitted to leave a mark as wide as his thumb. Women were property. Thank God for the womens movement. Feminism has nothing to do with hating men and everything to do with equality. Victorias Secret ads do not cause rape-I am in total agreement, but they do objectify women. Who looks like the women in the ads? because that is what much of the young girls in the US strive for. Why are girls on facebook doing this girl on girl stuff? Because it gets male attention-boys/mens fantasy. I support gay rights, I am not talking about that, I am talking about entertaining boys sexually. Do 10 yr olds really need thong underwear?

Google "Steubenville ohio teen rape case" and you will see a story that has gone national thanks to Annonymous. It is heartbreaking to see what this young girl has gone through. A bunch of teens drinking at parties and a girl passes out drunk while 2 football players rape her and it goes viral.One bystander, a 16 yr old boy, gives a 10 minute commentary about her being dead on his IPhone. Fifty kids were at these parties while all this was going on and witnessed this. When it went viral, the entire community saw this 16 yr old girl unconscious and being molested by the football players. This girl can never return to her school and suffers at the expense of the society that we are accepting. I wonder what it would be like with all the technology and NO Womens Rights. The coaches and others knew and football was more important than this girls safety. They didnt want the players kicked off the team. This is less than an hour from my house and yes, I believe in these rallies. Now the parents, teachers and coaches are all being investigated for not reporting this information and covering it up and may be prosecuted as well as the teenage boys that will be registered sex offenders for life. This football team was more important than this girl.

Men who abuse women are a benefit to the men who do not abuse women. I can't tell you how many times I have heard a woman say about her man (that did not have a job and contribute financially, that drank a bit too much or cheated, and some that had no teeth,) but he doesnt abuse me. Men who abuse women end up elevating the worth of men who do not. How bad is that.

During years of raising my daughters, I have often heard from other moms "dont tell your dad the dress was $300". What are we protecting him from? REALITY. "Wait til your dad gets home", another common phrase that puts men in a superior position. I say let them know how much the groceries cost and how much a prom dress costs and deal with it.

Sorry-Im ranting a bit
 
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