Relationship Found Myself A Place, Moving Out Friday

[Wastinglight]

So I was approved for both rental properties I applied for yesterday, so I got to choose which one I wanted, which was nice. I will have to go and pick my stuff up from his house on Friday, which I'm not looking forward to, but luckily I have the option of staying at my lovely friend's house until then.

After he announced to everyone he was single, I blocked him on Facebook and asked him to only contact me when absolutely necessary, for practical purposes. I'm very confident that he will comply with that. Right now he's probably feeling nothing but relief, but if I know him at all, he will eventually start feeling guilty for what's happened. He knows that I tried my hardest, but I don't think he can say the same.

I haven't logged into Facebook since i blocked him. We have 26 mutual friends on FB, but even if any of them bother to contact me, I'm not interested in talking to anyone for a while. Or ever. God knows what he's told them about the break up.

I can feel an extended period of binge-watching all my favourite shows coming on. I haven't watched any of them this past year because HE wasn't interested in them - we only ever watched what HE wanted to. I am trying to focus on all the shitty bits of the relationship, to help propel me into "Happy to be single" mode sooner rather than later, and frankly, I'm spoilt for choice.

Trying to embrace my anger as much as possible - right now it's my friend.

 

[Peach]

Congratulations, glad something is working out.

Don't know what type of shows you're into, but the US version of The Office is my all time favorite when I'm blue.

Maybe give yourself a few weeks then you can give this one a try - "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." Never tried it myself, but it seems fairly reasonable. :) Embrace the anger and your new freedom!

 

[Wastinglight]

Congratulations, glad something is working out.

Don't know what type of shows you're into, but the US ve...

Thanks Peach.

Rebound flings aren't my style - never done it, never will. Even thinking about it makes me feel icky. I might stick with the anger :-D

 

[Sweetpea76]

Sing loudly while unpacking too ;)

 

[Wastinglight]

Sing loudly while unpacking too ;)

Hehe, thanks @Sweetpea76. I've been singing loudly ever since I walked out of that house.

I had to tell a few people at the shooting club what has happened, because I'm holding guns for other people. They were all shocked, and they said "But you two were so great together!" Depressing. I said that the relationship had some problems that needed to be resolved before we moved forward, and I was willing to try but he wasn't. I don't want to say any more than that, but I don't know if he will keep his mouth shut likewise. It's hard because people always wants to know what happened. I will be very angry if I find out that he's made our break-up an open topic of discussion at the range. It was bad enough that he broadcast it on Facebook.

 

[Sweetpea76]

Hopefully he has enough pride not to try and make it "all you."