Getting Ready For Anniversay

[anthony]

Anonymoose, I am not going to reinvent the wheel here, but I will be quite clear on this. I have read this thread without bias of Nicolette being my wife, and I actually am agreeing with Wendy on this. You have stepped over the mark the moment you tried to discredit Nicolette's opinion / experience / suggestions / questions towards your decision. If you do not want input from members, then do not put something out there for it to begin with.

As Wendy clearly stated, you are going to get a wide array of opinions, suggestions, experience and so forth. Instead, you came close to attacking Nicolette with remarks about qualifications. I'm sorry, but therapists and physicians are often known to be wrong, and qualifications do not make any individual correct. Doctors have a qualification to treat our health and well-being, and they make mistakes regularly.

It is one thing to make a statement that you are sticking with your therapists decision, it is another to get pissed off and coming close to attacking others for their opinions or experience. You make a choice to ignore something you read or to respond... but it is your choice and your words on how you respond.

Again, I have always edited with the intent to keep bias out of my decisions, regardless who the person is, and this is no different.

 

[Anonymoose]

Anthony,
I don't think that it was appropriate for anyone to call my therapist a twit. Nor do I think that it is appropriate to gang up and try to bully me into a different approach to a traumatic anniversary. While I appreciate your effort to moderate in an unbiased fashion, it seems to me that you have fallen short of the mark.

 

[anthony]

Hi,

Nobody is bullying you into anything from what I am reading. Because people disagree with you does not mean at any stage anyone is bullying you into any such thing. I have not read any bullying upon this thread. If you feel bullied, then you only need say what you feel, not attack another's opinion because its not what you want to hear or is not conclusive to what you have already decided. Again, if you do not want broad feedback and opinions, then do not put something out to gather such.

I will state the obvious. You are responding in a manner that once again is insulting or derogatory. This obviously means you are the one that need step back and think about what you are saying in your response, how you are saying it, and whether or not you want to continue insulting others here, including myself now from your last post.

Nobody is insulting you, bullying you or any other such thing from what I have read here. You are however being insulting towards others, because people are not agreeing with you. That is the great thing about individual opinions... they are not always the same and in fact, you end up with a diverse response pool in which to gather knowledge appropriately. Again, it is your choice to what and how you respond and you are responsible for such.

You are warned to be very careful in response... please feel free to read the rules and DO NOT attack, demean or insult others please. Respect others opinions as you wish yours to be respected. No, you cannot request an administrator or editor of this forum to not go into something of yours either, as you have requested upon my profile. This is why all editors are immune from any type of individual member action to try and refuse entry to information. Editors have a role to perform, as such they have automatic right to most areas of this forum to comment, edit and control any aspect that does not conform to the rules of this forum. (private areas excluded)

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