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Happiness Challenge Round 2 May 7th

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As it happens the county fair is a really really good place to go looking for opportunities for random acts of kindness. I managed four on Thursday! Riding with the "extra" kid, sharing goodies, extra thanks for the people working there. Giving mommies and daddies a bit of a break (nothing like being able to go to the bathroom BY YOURSELF!)

It is also exercise as there is ALOT of walking.

Chock full of happy memories.

I am grateful for really good ride operators (who knew they could be so engaging and fun?)
I am grateful for living in a small community.
I am grateful for really really greasy pizza and funnel cakes!:hungry:

Exercise was walking abdominal exercises and did meditation in the AM.

Five for five on Thurs.

Friday I did meditation in the AM, and walked for the exercise (although I wasn't thinking of that as exercise, I planned to to Abs late, but the day got totally mixed up)

I am grateful for my friend Sylvia.
I am grateful for my H who takes care of repairs to all three rentals on the same day.
I am grateful for the ability to be flexible and roll with unexpected events (mine and his).

I had a lovely time talking at the park with my friend while L played.

Did I manage an act of kindness yesterday? Oh, yeah, agreed to have my day off today instead of yesterday!

It didn't seem like it, but I guess I was five for five both days thanks to walking!

More on The Happiness Advantage later.
 
I exercised....not a lot, but enough to remind me that I do have muscles (that are still sore from a few days ago). I would not have done any of this exercise were it not for this thread, so thank you, again for starting it.

Random act of kindness: I removed several fishhooks from fish for queezy parents at a park outing. An act of kindness for yesterday.....I gave two kids a ride even though I was running late already.

Good things about the day: I ate well. This is a real challenge for me. I did not need to nap. Again, a real challenge. I saw my kid in a play. What an awesome job all the kids did! I loved it! Very touching.
 
I took these photos and then did them up with my new camera and my favorite photo software this morning. Roses are some of my most treasured things I am grateful for! I just LOVE the aroma of roses!!!

My Mother's Day Rose.webp
Rosie Spring May 2013.webp


The one with the black background is my Mother's Day Rose, which I received a week ago at church. It is still doing very well. I change its water every day. The rose bush is my Fire Rose which I planted in front of the building I live in. It sits right in front of the manager's office. That is where she asked me to plant it 3 years ago when I bought it. It is flourishing and I water it with my leftover fish tank water, fish wastes and all. Best fertilizer!
 
OH, water roses with fish water - brilliant Sheila! We just acquired a hand me down tank, so will be putting your suggestion to use!

Nothing yet today - yesterday was my turn for yuck day. Didn't get my rest day on Friday and am suffering for it - although perhaps not as much as my poor H and daughter who have to put up with me.

I am grateful for clean cars (way to go H and me! first time in months they've been cleaned.)
I am grateful for my "new" vacuum (a yard sale purchase by my H, he said "late Mother's Day gift" I said, "Better rethink that, dude.":))
I am grateful for the cool weather.

Happy memory from yesterday - my H hugging me and telling me I did a good job on everything for the last two weeks, even though I didn't get anything done on the projects I'd planned to do.

Random act of kindness... looking for an opportunity.
Exercise and Meditation still to come...
 
I am just hanging in here by the skin of my teeth. I am barely managing. So much stuff is coming up. I feel so ashamed for being who I am and where I am in my life.

1. I am grateful that I managed to apply the Happiness Advantage by thinking about the guy who had to keep one spot in his room clean. I am trying to do that in my thinking at the moment.

I am grateful that I decided to challenge my thinking about SI and being a failure today and I did set aside these thoughts for periods today.

I am grateful that I did do better today. I did much better drawings in my class today.

2. I did challenge my thinking which is very disordered and all over the place. So much self hatred is coming up. I realise that I need to change many things about me. I did painting for a community art project and an upcoming exhibition for ten hours yesterday. I felt so bad about myself but I kept going and contributed to the best of my ability.

3. I did two short walks today.

4. I did some short meditation on and off this morning.

5. I opened a door for someone today.
 
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