Relationship He left for someone else.

[Cleo1521]

I just need to vent. Someone who consistently tells me how messed up they are leaves for someone else. Drop all of your trash on me, but you have time for someone else? I feel crazy.

 

[VVR]

Hey this isn't your fault. Their mask will slip off with the new person as well. This is more on them not you. They have decided that the relationship is stressful and they cannot handle it ( all relationships are stressful)

 

[Cleo1521]

Hey this isn't your fault. Their mask will slip off with the new person as well. This is more on them not you. They have decided that the relationship is stressful and they cannot handle it ( all relationships are stressful)

He always said I stress him out and I really did nothing but take in oxygen most days. (Trust me...if I was being difficult I know it and own it) it’s like something new isn’t stressful for him and feels “normal” until it doesn’t. So sad and defeated.

 

[EveHarrington]

New is fun and zero work.

Really, it’s not you.

He’ll dump her when he finds out she’s actually human.

 

[Cleo1521]

New is fun and zero work.

Really, it’s not you.

He’ll dump her when he finds out she’s actually human.

So I’m assuming this isn’t an unusual thing?

 

[concernedboyfriend]

So I’m assuming this isn’t an unusual thing?

Just happened to me as well.

 

[Cleo1521]

New is fun and zero work.

Really, it’s not you.

He’ll dump her when he finds out she’s actually human.

I’m just mind blown I guess.

 

[EveHarrington]

I speak as someone who is almost always the “new and exciting thing” until the guy finds out I’m human.

I’ve never taken a guy away from another woman though.

 

[Cleo1521]

I speak as someone who is almost always the “new and exciting thing” until the guy finds out I’m human.

I’ve never taken a guy away from another woman though.

I feel tossed in the trash. His mask doesn’t work with me.

 

[Hojay]

I’m so so sorry this happened. This happened to me (and a few others I know) without PTSD being in the mix. That’s already beyond heartbreaking. But when PTSD is an element, it must be even worse, because you give and give and understand and wait and give and hope and learn and give some more only for some selfish f*ck to pull this on you. I’m really sorry. But know it’s not you. Dickheads like this have always and will always be like this. We didn’t turn them into it.

 

[Cleo1521]

I’m so so sorry this happened. This happened to me (and a few others I know) without PTSD being in the mix. That’s already beyond heartbreaking. But when PTSD is an element, it must be even worse, because you give and give and understand and wait and give and hope and learn and give some more only for some selfish f*ck to pull this on you. I’m really sorry. But know it’s not you. Dickheads like this have always and will always be like this. We didn’t turn them into it.

I feel like I know more about what he’s going through than him. He’s untreated...I’m sure I’ve said that before. I’m sure it’ll be the same as the others...everything is a fairytale until someone isn’t perfect. That’s not realistic.

 

[Hojay]

That’s exactly it with relationship jumpers. They’re trying to fill a void. Sadly it doesn’t work that way. Patterns repeat until we take responsibility. I feel bad for the new gal. She doesn’t know what’s coming.