How many 'assesments' are needed?

[Lost in the Woods]

Take a deep breath. Do you have an attorney? Do you have a therapist? To me it sounds like te ex might have some narcissism in his behavior. This can be incredibly harmful to the receiving spouse. The best tool is to minimize contact. The only thing any of us can do is work on ourselves and let time expose the abuser for what they are. Be open about your shortcomings and desire to improve. My heart goes out to you on this.

 

[Movingforward10]

The family court is really tough and there is a lot of information about how abusers use the court process to continue to abuse.
Youigping through such a hard time.

If you aren't entitled to free legal aid, there are solicitors/barristers who can help for free. If you Google you might find something. There are also volunteers who can support you in court. Those volunteers canthelp with legal advice but they can help with support.

Has the court agreed to this further assessment?
Has the court decided that the allegations he has made about you, and you have made about him, are true or not? That is key because of the court has decided something, it becomes fact and true.