Finally went to the doc last week and talked about MY problems sleeping. He gave me some chinese herbs (darn it, why do you always have to take them THREE times a day..) which I haven't started yet. And some restoril (the low dose) which, I must say, works like a charm for me. I was worried (since I am the only one home with L) that she would wake up or have a nightmare or something and I would sleep through it - but its not like that, I do wake up, and I'm a bit unsteady on my feet at first, but not too bad, and then when I lay down again I GO BACK TO SLEEP! Hurray! So I slept well last night, despite cat being in (too soft hearted to leave him out as it was going to rain) and L getting up and coming into my bed at 12:30. Slept til 5 - got up to pee, then slept until 7. WOW.
Gratitude to the people who make those pills...