I Am Done, But I Am Stuck

[void]

I am so f*cking sick of my husband and how he treats me when I am triggered. He swears to me ever f*cki...

Is there a local Social Worker that could help you with the ID issues, I wonder??
There is no doubt that you need real-world practical help to escape.
Some caring professional that will actually do some of the work to get you out of this "stuck" place.

It takes courage to even express how raw and painful your life is.
There is nothing easy about your situation........I'm so sry to hear of your suffering.:(
You deserve true love, gentle compassionate touch........tenderness.
May you have it.

 

[Kailani]

Fadeaway; hugs and hugs to you!!!!
It seems your husband is having his own hard time and can't be there for you right now. Sounds like he really really needs help.

You deserve hugs and support! I just think he needs more help before he can be there

Hope you find a great support system; don't give up! We are here for you and rooting for you! Baby steps, the whole big picture can be overwhelming but one little attempt after another! I always think it's good to have plan b, plan c. Love and hugs to you. You always deserved those hugs and shame on others for not giving them!

 

[Enaila]

Perhaps see if there are any women's empowerment therapy groups where you live or a women's coalition. The women's coalition group or women's shelter in your area might be able to help you locate resources to assist in becoming more independent. Attending a women's empowerment therapy group helped me gain some footing and prepare for the future. When my ex refused counseling, the counselor focused on helping me get to a safe place physically and emotionally.

 

[Sideways]

(Corny content alert)

Do you love this man? Is this a relationship you want to save? Does he feel the same way?

If the answer to those questions is "Yes", and this is Supporter Fatigue, this situation can be fixed. He can recover his emotional reserves. This does not have to cost you both this relationship if you're ready to get him recovered.

If the answer to those questions is "No", then this isn't really just about the hugs, and the problem-solving ahead of you goes in a completely different direction...