The bad news is that I don' t know who to believe. Let me start off with (as some of you may know) I live with my in-laws. Their mother, my husbands grandmother came over and the house was turned on it's head, she's a total suppressor and narcissist, queen diva of drama. So we were in the car (my husband and I ) and we talked about how we are getting our own place, and she spurts out, "And the baby stays here with your parents?" We were shocked and appalled. We are not abusive, we take care of him all day long, and his mom only watches him during his nap because she likes it, but apparently she was relaying that we are no good parents and we're doped up on anti-depressants and I'm a lost cause, ect. And then, she tells his brother that we dump the baby on her all day and she's exhausted. So now we have him yelling at us telling us we should move out (which we are anyway) and then Gma over here saying the baby stays here. I want to start punching faces in at this point. Then mother-in-law and father-in-law are begging us to stay here telling us they dont know what they would do without us, but then yesterday I hear on the phone playing damage control with the family.
Good news now, is that the negative vibes I picked up on were valid and my husband no longer thinks I'm paranoid and crazy and knows I can read energy because I told him this exactly would happen with our son(And I predicted everything that would happen with his friends). So we're closer now than we have ever been. He even invited me to his sessions at the VA. But how do I cope with these feelings about his family? I'm not going to make a scene in front of my son but we need to get out, I hate feeling married to his parents. It makes me think of leaving him just because I don't want to be here around the psychosis anymore. I'm quite resentful that he hasn't done much to move us out. I guess things could always be worse, I'm not in a third-world country and I've already been through worse crap than talking heads. I somewhat feel like at this point enough is enough, I need my own successful adult life.
Good news now, is that the negative vibes I picked up on were valid and my husband no longer thinks I'm paranoid and crazy and knows I can read energy because I told him this exactly would happen with our son(And I predicted everything that would happen with his friends). So we're closer now than we have ever been. He even invited me to his sessions at the VA. But how do I cope with these feelings about his family? I'm not going to make a scene in front of my son but we need to get out, I hate feeling married to his parents. It makes me think of leaving him just because I don't want to be here around the psychosis anymore. I'm quite resentful that he hasn't done much to move us out. I guess things could always be worse, I'm not in a third-world country and I've already been through worse crap than talking heads. I somewhat feel like at this point enough is enough, I need my own successful adult life.
