I Hate Human Interaction Its Awful.

[Geevee20]

All people do is judge and treat you like your a f*cking child when I'm a lone i feel great no judging no comments that hurt and my life is so much better i love my wife but she's included in my lone time.

 

[Friday]

Just checking for clarity... You mean your wife is included in your alone time, as someone who makes you feel good... Or your wife is included in your alone time and it stresses you out?

 

[Intrepid]

I feel like I get so much b.s. from people on a social level. I don't feel like people are treating be like a child so much any more, but I felt like that for years. I know it's about me and not about the whole world.

Still, I stay away from people, and I'm tired of being isolated. I want a choice. So, I hope to get in to a DBT group. From what I've read that will make a lot of difference (as long as the therapist doesn't treat me like a child!).

 

[illusionist]

Take a step back.....are they really judging you and treating you like a child...or is it your interpretation of it?.....not judging you....I used to see people like this until I learned to take a step back and view from a different angle.

One example of this...I am hard of hearing..often I've got to ask people to repeat what they are saying. Many would proceed to talk slowly with exaggerated mouth movement...I would automatically feel like they were talking to me like a 2 year old..funny looking back at it. Now? I see it from their lack of understanding of what is needed...that is, for them to hold their head up and project their voice clearly...I ask for that now.

Regarding alone time....it is up to us to make that space for ourselves. By doing that, we cope better when we are around people.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

If your wife is in your alone time, it's not technically alone time. (Just ask any introvert.... alone time is completely by yourself.)

 

[illusionist]

I was thinking that...time with my partner is home time.