I think I might need someone to talk to tonight

[Never_falter2]

Silly reason. Vet is out there in a crowded place and most likely afraid (fear of terrorist attacked on Friday 13th during Christmas time. Bataclan was on Friday 13th). He infected me with his fear does somebody want to talk to me... but I won’t be here much.... need to prepare dinner for the kids and put them into bed soon... would still be cool if there was someone who wants to talk and chat from time to time... maybe stressed yourself? Sorry for being silly.

 

[ladee]

Sure. I'm here. I'll be on and off today. So let's talk. And you aren't being silly for reaching out when you are scared. That's healthy, not silly.

 

[Never_falter2]

Here I am again. Somebody there?

 

[Never_falter2]

Anybody there?

 

[siniang]

I'm here! Are you ok?

 

[Never_falter2]

A few minutes ago my vet has texted me saying that he is not feeling good but that he cannot get away. That’s unusual for him to say he is not feeling good. So I am a bit worried.

 

[siniang]

Is your vet still out? Where is he staying the night? Did he give reasons why he can't get away? Could you go there?

 

[siniang]

And as someone with GAD, I just wanted to emphasize that you're absolutely not being silly! :hug:

 

[Never_falter2]

Yes, he is still out. He plans to be staying at our home this night, plans to come home as soon as possible without causing offense.

 

[LuckiLee]

It's good he is communicating with you. Just let him know you and the kids are safe. All his sences are in hyperdrive so it may take a few days for him to calm down after this. You also need to stay calm when you're with him because he's already worried as it is.

Thinking of you and your family tonight.

 

[Never_falter2]

I think he currently is not reading what I text... but I‘ll text him to tell him we are safe anyway. You are right, he is maybe also worried about us because of his condition.

And when he comes home I‘ll be very calm with him, maybe have drink for him... or maybe he just needs to sleep. He got up very early this morning. I ask him what he needs when he is here.

 

[Never_falter2]

Vet is back and asked me what I have been doing and I told him I have been talking to you he told me to tell you “Thank you. Everything alright“. Vet having a bath now.
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