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I Want To Nominate Anthony For Ted

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I just do not believe PTSD and healing can talked about without the value of support. I believe people would respond to Nicolette and how she handles being among those of us with PTSD and flashbacks,ect of those she loves, knows and/or the manner in which to offer support. The draw is more than supporting Anthony.

Personally myself being an x-service wife (plus having PTSD) then watching both sides on base suffer without hope...
she could be more than a drape of beautiful...she is my hope that other people can live with 'us' and love us. I think that her voice is a counterpart to hope....that's all. No more stated. Thanks.
 
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Tell us briefly about the speaker. What’s their occupation? Any honors or distinctions? Their recent work? Why are you recommending them?

Anthony Parsons is a veteran who served Australia and who has Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result.

I am nominating Anthony because he inspired me. He inspired me to save my own life, and he inspired the same of hundreds if not thousands of others through his work founding, administrating, and otherwise maintaining the world's greatest PTSD forum, a resource created and run by those personally touched by PTSD for those living with or affected by PTSD--MyPTSD.com.

MyPTSD offers direct support, research, testimonials, and myriad other resources to those affected by PTSD. It is my understanding that when Anthony went to psychology conferences and spoke to professionals about his dream to create an online space for those with (or otherwise affected by) PTSD, he was dismissed at every turn, for a basic feature of PTSD is extreme avoidance of the issues experienced by sufferers.

Regardless, in 2005 Anthony created the first incarnation of the MyPTSD forum, which has since grown and thrived magnificently into a website that sees over one million unique visitors annually. All staff--myself included, a now 4+-year member of the forum--are volunteers, and they put in countless hours to moderate this invaluable and irreplaceable resource of peers struggling to overcome the many pitfalls of this permanent disorder.

I have been a fan of TED for nearly as long as the forum has been saving my life in my struggle with PTSD, and I have always thought that Anthony Parsons belonged on its stage. Anthony has demonstrated global reach, maintaining a strongly connected membership from every continent. He has proven that an inspiring--albeit seemingly far-fetched--idea can change thousands of lives. The support and resources garnered through participating on the forum--in itself a type of exposure therapy--has served to arm sufferers and supporters alike with the education and community necessary to foster healing. I have no doubt it has saved lives, families, relationships, and otherwise irrevocably and beautifully altered those it has touched over the past ten years.

Anthony relies almost entirely on member donations and his own personal investment to fund server costs and improvements for the forum. Many of us living with PTSD are unemployed, on disability, or otherwise make a meager income with which to support ourselves. We are not a wealthy bunch. In spite of this, donations roll in month after month, sometimes simply anonymous donations from those who have visited and benefited from reading our on-going and ever-growing collaborative conversation about living with and managing PTSD.

To illustrate how much this community cares about Anthony and the forum's sustainability, I will share a brief anecdote. This year, Anthony's wife and co-administrator put out a call for donations. We were in danger of falling short on our $240 monthly server costs following AdSense's decision to terminate partnership with our site given the "sensitive" nature of the site's content (rape, kidnapping, childhood abuse, war, etc.). In response, members rallied a donation drive, in which we raised $3,000 among ourselves in less than a week to cover our yearly server cost. This act was nothing short of miraculous for a community of--essentially--disabled people flung across the globe and struggling, in many cases, to get out of bed or check their mail every day. Regardless, as a community we put our dollars where our hearts were in order to lessen the burden and stress on our fellow sufferer, Anthony Parsons, and his wife.

In summation, I know as an avid follower of TED that it is a global speak pipe for technology, entertainment, and design--all of which are marvelously encompassed in Anthony's execution of his dream to connect and educate those living with PTSD. It is a platform designed to encourage and spread great ideas that inspire and change the world. MyPTSD accomplishes the same, providing some respite from the gravity of this disorder among peers who understand. Anthony tirelessly continues to improve upon the realization of his dream, his great idea: a forum to connect those who are fundamentally detached and isolated the world over. TED is a free educational resource, which touts the brilliant and the idealistic without apology. MyPTSD is not so different, offering its resources completely free of charge and asking only that members who can donate do so every now and again to keep our community running. Perhaps if Anthony could share his idea through TED, the growing stigma toward suffers of PTSD, to veterans and survivors of rape and other violence, might diminish, even a little, even if only for eighteen glorious minutes.
 
I also think this is a super idea. And I also first thought the bear when I saw the title! Such is the power of association!:D

In the states "veteran" means anyone who served, and younger vets are as common as older. TED committee is in the States, so I'd think that is ok.

Editing is not my forte. I like the pitch above a lot. I think Anthony has created/refined a new kind of community. Off the top of my head... Using the internet he has created a living community that generates an ongoing resource for people suffering with PTSD and those who care about them. The space Anthony has created and maintains requires compassionate human beings to participate and moderate it. The miracle here, and it is something of a miracle, is not in the web design - although that is tremendously important given the challenges of the people using it - clarity and ease of use are essential to people in the throes of emotional suffering - but in the creation and maintenance of a culture of mutual support, compassion, and unyielding honesty. It is a place for hard truths and soft landings. It is the best example of a healthy functioning human community that I know. It is hard to talk about this community, its creation and maintenance. On the one hand it is not a "one man show" Nicolette and Anthony are an indivisible team and the moderators are incredible and together they ensure the safety of the space for a terribly vulnerable group of people who, none the less need kindness, honesty, and sometimes very difficult to hear (and write) feedback. On the other hand Anthony is clearly the ... backbone of the operation and the guiding spirit. His rules, his ethos of communication are an essential element.

This forum has saved my sanity, taught me a huge amount of information and knowledge, and given me friends and support and... a voice at the darkest points in my life when I otherwise would have been alone and mute. This forum is a wonder of not just technological but SOCIAL engineering. I don't have data, but my hunch is that it is having ripple effects that have set in motion great changes in mental health globally. I look at the world differently because I am a part of this community. I am a more understanding and compassionate and less wussy person. I am working harder and better at being more sane and integrated a person myself. I have confidence that even the most damaged among us can get better because I have seen them get better - and so I believe I can get better too. And I know that there is also a very real danger of not getting better, and even not making it, because that happens too. The stakes are high. I treat others differently in 3D life because of what I've learned here. This is my governing model of what human interaction should be like in all its messy complexity. It is a revelation. Highly imperfect as we all are... something really really important is happening here and, thanks to Anthony's efforts and vision, we all get to take a hand in creating it from hour to hour.

I can't say exactly what does it - but the anonymity which most often makes people worse - here... it kind of makes us better? Is that it? That Anthony et.al. have found a way to put anonymity to good use?

I know some of those TED people in 3D life, @anthony, and you are totally in their league. No question. None. Your idea and creation in this forum is ... hard to describe or quantify but it is up there with the best. That is my professional (degrees from first ranked U.'s) opinion.
 
I love the idea! And I agree that the focus can best be on educating the world about what it is really like to live with (someone who has) PTSD. I think that many professionals don't really know what PTSD is all about, and that even they tend to be influenced by the stigmas attached to the illness.
So far I love what you and everyone else have written, @Simply Simon !

I really hope @anthony will win. Fingers crossed!
 
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