Kicked Out Of Church

[Friday]

So do you think she would get a restraining order if I made a new profile of me to send a message apologizing and explaining that all I want is some closure? Because she just blocked me and told me to leave her alone without saying why.

She doesn't owe you a reason why. 'No' is a complete sentence.

& Yes. I do believe she will follow through with her warning; if you continue stalking her, she will get a restraining order. She has told you to stop, multiple times. You have ignored her. If you won't respect her, maybe you'll respect the police? Your choice. Continue doing to someone else what they have asked you not to, and then it becomes their choice, to bring in backup. Legal or otherwise. If you're lucky, it will be legal. Where I come from people handle things more personally. The police won't cut your ears off for not listening.

You're minimizing an awful lot, both here where I quoted above & in your posting // all I wanted // I was just // I only // etc.

I would like to very gently suggest that very little of what you're minimizing is no big deal. Closure seems to be extremely important to you. As do the other things which you're downplaying in a major way. I don't know why you're doing this, it could be for a lot of reasons, but the end result is your not seeing why some of these things are a big deal to other people. Just because it's something you want? Doesn't mean it's trifling. For you or anyone else.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

I was trying to be nice about it all but

She doesn't owe you a reason why. 'No' is a complete sentence.

I 100% agree. I have blocked family, MANY family members, on Facebook without a reason and did not give one. If one of them started a 2nd account to get around the block, you bet your ass id get legal counsel (and report it to facebook) as at that point its stalking.

Move on. This holding onto to people i am very familiar with of aspects of a personality disorder. Not saying you have one, im saying I do as it has this key item in it. I know it well of wanting to explain myself and wanting so badly for the other to understand that i meant no harm or was sorry and learned my lesson and basically "please dont leave me". Its an abandonment issue thing. If you have a therapist, id bring this up to them as there is a whole lot in this situation you can learn from. And thats what we are here to do, learn and better ourselves, right?

You do, though, need to move on.

 

[joeylittle]

@ashleyash1212 - your OP appears on multiple forums; either you are trolling, or you are spamming the internet because you are upset.

Either way, you have never mentioned PTSD. You've gotten good advice from the members of this forum. Take it, and be well.