Hmmmmmm.... not sure why that wasn't mentioned veiled, like as we all know, its the obvious I believe. I don't know if it was really Kerrie's input, but more mine, as so much of my life has been consumed with the change the last few months, I haven't been around her myself. Like anything, when I suddenly began posting vigorously again, traffic soured back into the site. Dangerous stuff IMHO... lucky the pressure doesn't get to me I guess. It is the obvious, and I notice the changes throughout the forum as I have not been around, but people must learn IMHO to continue working on themselves without my help or support, they must learn the reality that no one, two or more persons will constantly be their to hold their hand and guide them, and they must take action themselves.
I did notice a lot of people doing this though, the people who are quite within their healing process already, continue their great work and not only helping themselves, though others, whilst I have been a lesser participant here. Slowly I am getting more back into here, its not just seperation though, but more I have some hobbies which I am currently putting some much needed time as I have avoided them because of the forum, so now I have to do some upgrades, fix other things, improve and so forth with is all time consuming, especially web related hobbies.
The last couple of weeks went into a directory list I run, upgrading and redesigning the site with improved features, options, etc. I have others to achieve yet also... one will take a great deal of my time, though trying to mix myself between everything at once. Not always the best option... but my only option at present to please others and myself.
