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Manage your stress with therapeutic writing

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Research studies over the last 30 to 40 years have illustrated the usefulness of therapeutic writing. Benefits include improvements to sleep, memory, mood, and the immune system, along with reduced absenteeism and fewer visits to the doctor with stress-related illness.

One simple way to use therapeutic writing is to keep a journal. Here are some instructions for how to do this. A word of caution: if you're suffering from severe stress, it's advisable to seek help from a healthcare professional first.

Choose a time and place

Choose a time when and a place where you won't be interrupted. Start each session by taking a few minutes to relax and prepare. If it aids concentration, play soft background music.

Start writing

Always date your journal entries. This makes it easier to track feelings over time and see patterns. Don't worry too much about grammar and punctuation. Just write about what's bothering you. At first, you don't have to construct sentences; if necessary, simply jot down words that express how you feel or, if you find it easier, make drawings. Don't censor yourself. Your journal is private, so be honest.

As you write, you might find yourself becoming emotional. Don't worry. This is normal. Just let those emotions surface. Think of it as decluttering or cleansing your mind. Try to include what makes you happy or grateful, too, to remind yourself that life is rarely all bad.

You don't have to write every day, but at first, try to make about three entries in your journal each week. Spend around 15 to 20 minutes writing during each session.

Go deeper

As the days go by, start to introduce some structure to your writing sessions. Try to identify your stressors. Ask yourself specific questions. How was your day? How did you sleep? Categorize your responses. Is work, your relationships, your health, or something else causing your unease? How does this make you feel? Try to be specific about causes and feelings. Are you feeling frustrated, angry, guilty, worried, fearful, or some other emotion, and why? Once you have something to work with, prioritize your problems. What creates the most stress for you? You may find it helpful to grade your Subjective Units of Distress (SUDs) at the beginning and end of each session.

Move Forward

After journaling for a while, you should have a better understanding of how you feel and why. Quite simply, journaling will put you in touch with yourself. Perhaps you'll see a pattern to your stress? Do the seasons affect your stress levels, for instance? Is there a monthly cycle?

Look back over all that you've written and start writing down possible solutions to your most pressing problems. Perhaps you need to speak to your manager about your workload, find a better way to work, change your job, find a job, or seek stress counseling? Maybe you need to socialize more, or less, live a healthier lifestyle or take a holiday. Whatever you decide to do, make it happen. Plan for a better, less stressful future.

Revisit the technique as required

There is no need to keep your journal every day over long periods of time; you can put it aside for a while and only repeat the process when you feel the need. Bear in mind that journaling should never become a substitute for taking action to deal with your stressful situations. Use your journal as a sounding board and a tool to help you focus and stimulate your innate coping abilities.

Expressive writing through journaling can help you to identify your stressors and begin finding ways to deal with them. In just a few minutes per day, you can help yourself to a healthier, less stressful future.
 
So helpful information here!! I have been doing Art Journaling for the last 6 years (writting and drawing/painting) Everything is there. I like the idea of reading them again and spotlight the issues I need to work out.
My main problem now is that I haven’t a daily rutine at all. I sleep during the day and I am awake at nights. Also I eat when I am hungry. I have tried to create a basic daily rutine, it works for few days and then, I come back.
Any ideas that could help me? I basically believe I want to avoid daytime and its responsabilities.
 
Hi, you outlined your own problem, you don’t have a daily routine. I know you want answers, but you gave the problem… so what could you do to fix it? How can you change your sleep patterns from day sleeping to night sleeping?

You have more answers within you than you may think, as you know you and your life best.
 
Thanks Anthony. You are right, I have the answers…I just need to answer with honestly what I am willing to do to help myself.
 
I’d also like to add, whatever you decide… take it one step at a time. So if say for instance you want to start by being awake during the day, you’re only going to be able to alter your sleep patterns by half an hour a day. So if you usually go to bed at 6:30am, tomorrow try 6am, then 5:30, 5, 4:30 etc. Making small, gradual changes will have a greater and lasting impact.

Also, I have heard several times that it takes a month to create/break habits. So don’t expect after 3-4 days that you can relax and your new habits will be formed. Doesn’t quite work that fast but it is quicker than I expected. If you can stick at your new routines for a month, you’ve got a good chance of making it habitual.

However, having said all that if you never address the underlying issues (I can’t sleep at night because lying down in the dark makes me feel vulnerable – so like you I sleep during the day) then the changes will be minimal. If you don’t have a therapist, I’d get one and maybe go and visit your doctor to get a few pills to help you as you make these changes? Sleeping pills are habit forming so they’ll only ever give you enough for 2 weeks at a time, but it will help you as break the cycle. I like the fact that it’s only 2 weeks, because all it is for me is a nudge in the right direction rather than a crutch to lean on, leaves me feeling in control.

Good luck! I’m a fellow artist/writer too! Love it
 
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