Marriage After Infidelity

[Dafot]

Which leaves me to believe he may have been a faker.

 

[Bemof]

There a lot of good info (whether you reconcile or divorce, were the one cheated on or cheating) over at survivinginfidelity. Except for the fact that every third person claims to have PTSD from being cheated on. That will piss you off. But if you can wade through that BS, it's a good resource.

You can't get PTSD from being cheated on.

PTSD : POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER

A Breakup can be Traumatic, and just as every body here suffers to different degrees with their PTSD, people get it from different things.

I mean it isn`t like we have people here who were not in a combat zone, (just as an example), but then just as in the civvie world with "I stubbed my Toe and got PTSD" we have fakers here the aswell.

PTSD is an Individual Illness and, when taking the piss out of others who may or may not have it. Maybe we should think about what others (maybe in the MIlitary) think about us and our "Supposed Illness"

Why? Well simply said, we do demand that we with our illness are Accepted and Compensated. So who are we to call the pot black

 

[Isuso]

Tuppence
Anglesachse

 

[Alu]

Criterion A: stressor
The person was exposed to: death, threatened death, actual or threatened serious injury, or actual or threatened sexual violence, as follows: (one required)

1. Direct exposure.
2. Witnessing, in person.
3. Indirectly, by learning that a close relative or close friend was exposed to trauma. If the event involved actual or threatened death, it must have been violent or accidental.
4. Repeated or extreme indirect exposure to aversive details of the event(s), usually in the course of professional duties (e.g., first responders, collecting body parts; professionals repeatedly exposed to details of child abuse). This does not include indirect non-professional exposure through electronic media, television, movies, or pictures.

 

[Gugis]

Its also possible I'm just touchy. I don't want in this club. I want my life back.

 

[Dafot]

You would have to be in one heavy relationship or got it by proxy. Mental health is individual, so yeah.

Taking the piss is what we do, I accept it from my military pals and from the rest of society who still don't get mental health.

Dan (same guy who posted toilet comment)

 

[Tunuz]

You would have to be in one heavy relationship or got it by proxy. Mental health is individual, so yeah.

Taking the piss is what we do, I accept it from my military pals and from the rest of society who still don't get mental health.

Dan (same guy who posted toilet comment)

Follow you there Dan brother, we get it from all angles. And I will take the piss as much as the next guy (Actualy normaly more), but it is funny how many here don`t like it when its on the other foot, and go on and bitch and whine in the forum when something happens .

Just saying like.

Me, I couldn`t care less what people think of me, If I did, I wouldn`t be here stepping on peoples toes all the time. But then if some don`t have something to whine about they aren`t happy, or at least aren`t as happy as they think they are.

Tuppence
Anglesachse

 

[Dafot]

Just saying like

I would not expect anything less mate, somebody needs to shake it up a bit, I am amazed people exist too sometimes.

Dan

 

[Ibo]

but it is funny how many here don`t like it when its on the other foot, and go on and bitch and whine in the forum when something happens .

Most ppl I see are genuinely struggling here. Looking for answers, venting, support.
We're at different stages of PTSD so I'm wondering why it feels like bitching and whining to you?

Dutchie