Relationship My boyfriend disappeared

[Kitty.A]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and been friends for a about two year before hand, he’s a veteran that’s served in Iraq and and has pretty back anxiety, depression and PTDS. Things have been been amazing between us however he disappeared on me the last thing he said to me was “ goodnight I love you” on Tuesday night and now it’s Saturday and I haven’t heard a peep from him he’s actually blocked me. But he hasn’t just blocked me he blocked his best friends too. We’ve never had any issues in the relationship and we have very open communication which is why I’m so surprised cause he normally just tells me when he’s struggling but this time he just dropped off the face of the Earth and no one can reach him. Could this be his PTSD?

 

[DharmaGirl]

My first real love did this to me. I put up with it for about 4 years and I finally had enough. I understand the suffering you're going through, hoping he'll come back, what would he need to say for you to take him back, how could you trust him again. My advice would be to (if you want to) decide if you want him back, if no, then break up with him in your mind. Turn it into your decision so you can have some control over it. It might sound bonkers but it helped me. Good luck whatever you decide.

 

[Freida]

Cheating is not a symptom of PTSD, it’s a choice he made.

This. So much this ^^^^

ptsd does NOT give us the right to be asshats who expect forgiveness after we steamroll someone else's life.

I'm sorry it ended this way.
And let me repeat.... YOU did nothing wrong
This is all on him.

 

[HisWife22]

Hi @Kitty.A Just thinking of you. I hope you are healing.