My Daughter Got Beat Up By Her Husband Last Night While She Was Asleep

[saffy]

Wow your daughter sounds like she is strong and in control and is not prepared to run and hide from this bully.

She deserves a massive pat on the back for that and so do you as parents :)

His father is an idiot, he is no good to her in jail, HA, not much good out of jail either is he :rolleyes:

It is time to celebrate your strength and togetherness. :)

best wishes
Saffy :)

 

[71nothing]

Continued ((((hugs)))) for you and your family Gizmo. What a strong daughter and granddaughters you have. Be proud!

 

[anni]

I wish I'd been so clear and tough in the same position, you raised an awesome daughter, Gizmo. Maybe this guy just wasn't prepared for so many determined females and a complete lack of people being terribly impressed by his big, bad, scariness. His hands got full of consequences in a big hurry, could be this one got shocked out of any ideas on ruining his life by the amount of attention he's attracted so far.

Wish we could send a couple of truckloads of frappes and cigs for you, will keep prayers for your daughter, grandchildren, you and your husband going in lieu of them. Caramel or Mocha? :) Much good wishes, if it's not too intrusive, yes, please do keep the updates coming? (((((( Big!))))))

 

[winterose]

Just poppin in to give you big hugs Gizmo :)

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I am not feeling so good this morning. I took anti anxiety medication and am waiting for it to kick in. I hope it will help me to feel better.

I am not afraid right now. He seems to not want to go back to jail. I hope he gets to keep his job so he does not have time to sit around brooding.

This has never happened to him before. My daughter has so much she has to do. I will be calling her a little later. Verizon did not hook up her internet on her phone so I have to call.

I have to call on getting something stronger for the anxiety. I hope he cooperates. I have to stress how upset I am with what is going on.

I do not have much to report. She took the girls to a craft shop and they were doing crafts so it was cheering them up. The oldest girl had her last banjo lesson yesterday. It is a really good place for her to be and the people are wonderful for her. I will talk to my husband and try to talk to him about continuing to support her in the banjo lessons.

As for her cats she plans on keeping them with her. She is adamant about that.

There is a crazy man shooting police officers. It is all over the news. I hate watching it but my husband does love watching the news and I have to keep him happy.

I think her husband does not want to go back to jail. He has things he has to do to obey the order. Oh well. I will keep the updates coming. Thank you so much for all of your support. I swear it is keeping me going forwards.

 

[p-no]

Gizmo, hugs to you. You're doing things well. One step at a time.

Do you think the news can make your husband happy without you sitting nearby? Maybe you could go into another room and listen to some music on the radio while he's watching the news? Maybe he just likes watching or does he want to listen to the reports, too? That may make a difference?

Thinking of you and yours.

 

[Sammy]

Hugs to you and yours! You raised a very strong daughter!! She will survive and blossom. As will the children. I am glad "he" is following the order and staying away. On some level, he has to know how strong your daughter is and know he won't get away with this. Only a coward attacks while someone is asleep!

I hope you get some meds that help and you also get help with your husband. You have A LOT going on - do not sell yourself short. You are doing so well, especially with what is happening! Don't forget to take care of yourself. That is a given.

Hugs and prayers for you and yours!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I talked to my daughter on the phone. Her husband fraudulently filed the taxes to go into his account. My daughter wrote a letter to the Internal Revenue Service and told them. She filed the taxes to go into her account.

All the utilitilities are in her name so he cannot shut them off. She is going to call all of them today and fill them in on the situation and they should work with her. She has to go on Monday to file for the permanent restraining order. She will also file for divorce at the same time. Then she can go to welfare and apply for that.

She thinks he drove by the house last night. It scared her. She will keep her phone by her at all times now.

The littlest granddaughter had a father daughter dance they were supposed to go to tonight. She cried about the dogs being gone and not being able to go to the dance. She does not understand what is going on at all. She cried for a half hour. My daughter said the oldest one is fine and happy that he is out of there.

She is doing so many things. I am not feeling good today. It is raining, and my doctor did not give me stronger anti anxiety medication so I will have to make it on my own. My husband is not doing so good today.

I talked to the Medicare Advocate on the phone and I have to make another appointment with his doctor and get a prescription for home health care. My poor husband thought I was talking about placing him in a nursing home. I reassured him that he would be living here.

I have so much on my plate right now. We will go food shopping tommorow. I hope my husband will be able to come with me.

I hate leaving him home alone. He just sits in his chair and snoozes.

My daughter had to clean her house up from when the police came and searched for guns. I guess they made a mess. She is going to do arts and crafts with the girls and watch movies. We are going to their house tommorow after we go food shopping. She only has one hundred dollars on her.

It will help her get through a few days. We will have to pay for her to go food shopping too. She said to hang onto the receipts because she can take them to court. I do not know if he will be there on Monday. Her best friend is going with her. If he has a attorney it will go easier on her. She does not want a attorney. She has filed a restraining order before and she knows how it goes. She says she has pictures of her and the text messages he sent her.

She has the police report. I just do not feel good today. I guess it is gloomy here because of the rain.

 

[ms spock]

Keep going gizmo!

Take care of yourself also.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Well her husband got a lawyer. The lawyer sent her a letter and some pamphlets on criminals. Do not know what to make of that. She is not afraid to go against the lawyer by herself.

They are having a girls night tonight. More arts and crafts and junk food and movies. We will go over to their house tommorow. I am happy about that.

My husband had a bad day. I am trying to arrange home health care so we can get a skilled nurse to come out and take care of him and I can leave and do some things for myself. He, poor thing thought I was looking for a nursing home to put him in.

I talked to a medicare advocate today and she said I have to take him to see his family doctor and get permission for home health care.

I am hanging in. It was a lousy day today. I hope tommorow will be better.

 

[safenow]

Rest well tonight dear girl. keeping you and your family in my prayers.

 

[ms spock]

I am trying to arrange home health care so we can get a skilled nurse to come out and take care of him and I can leave and do some things for myself.

That is great news gizmo, that you are looking in to getting some space for yourself.