Jesta, thought of something: is she like you, in her personality? Then she may 'bury it'. Or, is she similar to your wife, a grandparent etc. You may be able to predict to a certain degree what she will reveal and what she will not, and how she may be feeling (internally).
My father said I was much like his father, of what I learned of him and how my father was himself , I have a very similar style of communicating (tendencies to express myself- or not).
My father said I was much like his father, of what I learned of him and how my father was himself , I have a very similar style of communicating (tendencies to express myself- or not).