My Egg Donor Hates My Art

[kasumigenx]

My Egg Donor demeans my art and does not validate my feelings as well, I am sick of it.

Example 1
Me: Someone stole my designs

Egg Donor: You should have patented it

Me: It is still my design.

Egg Donor: the design can be minorly changed and it can be said as not your designs

Example 2

Earlier, my Egg Donor coerced me to throw my art away.

 

[Ronin]

Can you move away from her?

Can you associate with other artists in your area that would provide more to the point feedback?

You are not dependent on what an abuser says to value yourself, your creativity, and your creations.
Eyes of dipshits like them would not know true beauty even if it yelled at them.

 

[hodge]

Omg, Kasu, I dearly hope you didn't throw your art away. Saying this as a fellow artist and PTSD sufferer.

 

[Deleted member 29920]

Please don't throw your art away. I once ripped up some of my paintings twelve years ago because my lecturer said I wasn't trying hard enough and questioned my desire to get into art school. I regret listening to her, and ripping up my art. It took me many years to realise her opinion didn't matter and that I shouldn't have destroyed my art.

 

[ladee]

Fellow artist here !!! Please do not ever let anyone , not anyone, make you destroy your art !!! That is as much a part of us as our fingerprints....... that makes me so sad.... it is a part of us, Please don't let anyone ever again, convince you that their opinion in any way matters....

 

[kasumigenx]

Omg, Kasu, I dearly hope you didn't throw your art away. Saying this as a fellow artist and PTSD sufferer.[/...

I did because my egg donor told me that my art looks amateurish, that was last year..

 

[kasumigenx]

My Sperm Donor raged because I said that I tried to say that I am an atheist/pagan(i actually said that I don't pray).

I am actually, a pagan..

My abusive grandmother is very cruel at times and treated me like a golden child at times.

She repeatedly molested me by allowing me to masturbate in her room while she is in it.

 

[Changing4Best]

My mother was an agnostic and she used to say that she prayed, but she did not know to Whom she prayed. Maybe you could say something like that, if that is truly what you would like to try to do. You could pray about this situation especially, if you feel moved to do so.

Praying is very simple and it is really just talking with a "Higher Power" (as the AA folks say).

Your sperm donor might or might not find that acceptable. I don't know much about your actual beliefs right now, since I don't know much about paganism. I am just trying to help you find peace with your sperm donor.

I wish you well. Can I pray for you? Would that help?

 

[kasumigenx]

My mother was an agnostic and she used to say that she prayed, but she did not know to Whom she pray...

Actually, I prefer being a positive person and helping others..rather than praying..

 

[Changing4Best]

Oh, OKay. I wish you well then. I am sure there are many people who will benefit from your help. I love to help folks too. It gives one a very good feeling and also is a good thing in general for all concerned.

 

[hodge]

So sorry. I hope you don't let anyone talk you into that again.

 

[StarChild]

She repeatedly molested me by allowing me to masturbate in her room while she is in it.

I admit, I find your short statements in all of your three created threads quite confusing... But this one in particular... Why would you go to her room and masturbate in her presence? If she was allowing it, without forcing you to masturbate, why didn't you simply stop and leave her room? There's a few things I wonder... Are you still a minor? And have you been officially diagnosed with PTSD by a speciaised psychiatrist / therapist? If yes, are you currently in therapy?

What kind of answers are you looking for? Respectively, what exactly are you expecting from the members of this PTSD forum?