My Husband Just Told Me He's Leaving Me

[Alimaria]

I am late to this thread, but I'm throwing my support out there for you, @Mal Content.

My husband left me 3 years ago (or 4, depending on when you start counting) for one of his faculty members. They are getting married in two weeks. Our children were 9, 6, 5, and 2 at the time. I was a stay at home mom. My PTSD diagnosis happened at the same time he lost his job because of the affair, so I was a crazy disaster in the beginning. I am still fighting with him in court. So much, so much. I wish I had found a place like this a long time ago.

You seem like you are in a good state of mind. Stay focused on yourself and what is best for you. I'll be thinking of you.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

@Alimaria Thank you so much for your support! While I wouldn't wish this on anyone, it's a relief to talk with people who understand.

I don't know how you survived. I can only imagine how you must have suffered! You are a warrior. I'm glad you're part of our tribe. :hug:

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishing - Dead Link Removed

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Well, f*ck. I just spent three days working on a post, and when I tried to post it, it disappeared.

 

[hodge]

Eh, you'll do it when the time is right.