No Feelings Of Love

[Abstract]

@Birke
Have a look at this:,"Ohhhhh my god, I am suffering so much." If you really did not love your chidren do you think you would feel like this? No. You still love them.

It is a truly terrible feeling though. I am sorry you are suffering so much.

 

[bell]

@Birke, while your mileage on this may vary, I just want to state that for me, regarding not feeling love, it helped a lot to realize that it wasn't that I literally couldn't feel love necessarily, but that my brain wouldn't let me as it didn't process it as safe. Once I realized that I had the capability and that I honestly wasn't devoid of it, I began to be easier on myself and little by little, started feeling more and more. I'm not 100% yet, but I'm well on my way, thankfully. And have hope that you can do the same? Why? Because you *want* it.

 

[aj1]

@bell you really do give me hope. I doubt I can break through to my ex, but I hope one day everyone who suffers can get there. You all deserve to love and be loved.