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OCD Obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviours

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How do you know when you’re just someone who has some obsessive thoughts with some compulsive behaviours attached and when you actually have OCD?

Is it about how much of an impact the thoughts/behaviours have on your life? ie if I sometimes have obsessive thoughts/ruminations and some compulsive behaviours (usually when my anxiety is high) but it doesn’t take up a huge amount of time, cause huge anxiety/distress or otherwise create a huge impact on my life, then that’s just ok and isn’t sign of actually having a disorder (OCD)?

Would welcome any insights around this topic.
 
As far as I understand it OCD is when it seriously interferes with your life, as in you’re completely unable to function without performing the rituals. Not that I’m an expert, but as far as I know you can display certain OCD like traits without being seen to have the full disorder. Personally, I know I have it in me to develop it, and I’ve come pretty close a few times in my life, with kind of pre-OCD behaviours- compulsive counting as a child, which I still occasionally do, weird thoughts around contamination (which have nothing to do with cleanliness), that sort of thing, which, if I hadn't been able to manage would have developed into the disorder. But, unless they’re seriously impacting on my life then they’re not OCD. I hope that's helpful.
 
OCD has one of the longest exclusions list of any disorder I’ve ever come across... because, yep... a whole helluva lot of other things come along with obsessions, compulsions, or both. And it’s not a complete list, by any means. It’s just exemplifying.

(Bold is standard, found in almost every other criterion list. The mile and an half long list that follows? Isn’t.)

D. The disturbance is not better explained by the symptoms of another mental disorder (e.g., excessive worries, as in generalized anxiety disorder; preoccupation with appearance, as in body dysmorphic disorder; difficulty discarding or parting with possessions, as in hoarding disorder; hair pulling, as in trichotillomania [hair-pulling disorder]; skin picking, as in excoriation [skin-picking] disorder; stereotypies, as in stereotypic movement disorder; ritualized eating behavior, as in eating disorders; preoccupation with substances or gambling, as in substance-related and addictive disorders; preoccupation with having an illness, as in illness anxiety disorder; sexual urges or fantasies, as in paraphilic disorders; impulses, as in disruptive, impulse-control, and conduct disorders; guilty ruminations, as in major depressive disorder; thought insertion or delusional preoccupations, as in schizophrenia spectrum and other psychotic disorders; or repetitive patterns of behavior, as in autism spectrum disorder).

Essentially... your obsessions, compulsions, etc. have to exist without any other causal factors that explain why you’re doing them (like anxiety, trauma, grief, etc., causing them.). It has to be its own thing. Independent and existing regardless of what else is going on.

In much the same way that people with ptsd are frequently citing CriterionA (cause matters), people with OCD are frequently citing Criterion D (it really, really matters). Because if one just looks at the foundation?

OCD is diagnosed when obsessions and compulsions
  • Consume excessive amounts of time (an hour or more each day)
  • Cause significant distress
  • Interfere with daily functioning at work or school, or with social activities, family relationships and/or normal routines.
Then half the disorders in the DSM, and half of the normal/expected fallout from major life events = OCD. When they’re not, and don’t.

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Which isn’t to say that people with OCD don’t have life happen (exacerbating symptoms), or comorbid diagnoses. Just that someone with OCD won’t just be symptomatic during certain periods of time when life is hard, but also on any random Tuesday afternoon when life is good and absolutely nothing is on.
 
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I'm not sure why it's important generally (understanding there may be many reasons it is important to you)? I mean, I have very obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors (and have since I was in elementary school) but I've never received an official diagnosis.

Diagnoses are just there to help a professional categorize, label, and treat (good or bad depending on your perspective). My thoughts and behaviors are not going to change based on whether or not I have a diagnosis.

I personally think a diagnosis indicates some kind of difficulty in functioning. But...even the therapists are not in agreement on that.
 
I think the only way to know for certain if its OCD or not is to consult a professional who can diagnose you.
As someone who has been diagnosed with OCD for many years, since I was a kid in fact (and have no doubt that I have it), I know that sometimes it takes up hours of my day, other days I don't notice it at all/don't have any interfering symptoms. It can come and go, wax and wane.
 
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