It's kind of bittersweet that my mom has not talked to me in 3 days, maybe 40 seconds, to tell me APS is investigating me. I am her sole caregiver ( she never learned to drive); I take her to her appointments, get her medicines, and help her pay her bills. She told me more than once that I do everything for her; I always deep down felt my mom was a narcissist. She would give or buy, but at a cost, you do what she says or agree with her, or it would be taken away or brought up all she has done and spent on you. She and I were never close. She is not close to any of my siblings either. She makes us feel unwanted like we were a mistake. I just had to rant to someone and figured this would be okay.