Please Help Me Understand

[Mytime]

Rose Quartz is for self love. Putting a Rose Quartz at the right side of your bed or in the right corner of your bedroom , from your bedroom door is for self love in Feng shui ?

 

[Mytime]

Also, if you have a King size bed, you should put a red sheet or fabric between your mattress and box spring. To make it one and grounded.

 

[NaeNae75]

@Mytime, we really do think alike! I feel so much good energy from you, so connected! I feel that way with several others too. I wish we could all be able to live this way IRL. It's beyond difficult to find people that understand. Then they wonder why "I'm" withdrawing... no one stops to think that it's their judgemental pushy crap that leads to it.

Oh no! That seems like one of those simple revelations... mirroring stuff. Yeah, maybe that's been my problem too. Darn it all!

Thank ALL of you for participating here. I'm learning a lot, and you are all giving me so much true strength through your support. You guys have saved me multiple times, in multiple ways! I have nothing but love in my heart and soul for you all!

 

[grimalkin]

I think I need to find some yoni stones. It's been awhile since I've been able to really delve into crystals, and my kegels need work - good way to combine them! :D Part of my self-care - I've been allowing myself to actually buy some of the gorgeous tarot decks out there.

That's one beauty of the internet - it can allow people to connect who probably wouldn't have been able to before. :) That's not always a plus, but in this case, with this group? I think it is! *hugs all around*

 

[NaeNae75]

I think I need to find some yoni stones. It's been awhile since I've been able to really delve into crystals, and my kegels need work - good way to combine them! :D Part of my self-care - I've been allowing myself to actually buy some of the gorgeous tarot decks out there.

That's one beauty of the internet - it can allow people to connect who probably wouldn't have been able to before. :) That's not always a plus, but in this case, with this group? I think it is! *hugs all around*

@grimalkin , I'm glad to see you're having fun with your self care! Only here would this be really a normal and accepted conversation! Pft, whatever works, right?! I know a few of us are in the same boat here, and it makes sense!

I think it's definitely a plus with us in this group. It's a really amazing community!

 

[NaeNae75]

So, it sounds like part of the puzzle is because it sounds like he's become a little more than "friends" with the babysitter. He says he's not dating her and his son said they're not dating, just friends. But I wasn't born yesterday.

We're not together any more, so he's free to do whatever he wants, but I don't like being lied to. I don't like being played for a fool.

Would you guys ask the question? Would it matter, especially if he says they're not dating? I don't think I know how to handle this. I'm so hurt. 9 years just don't mean a damn thing.

I'm not sure how this changes my mind or not, honestly. I don't know if I'll get the truth or not, but it would be nice.

I don't know how you go from ring shopping to potentially dating the babysitter two weeks later. I really thought more of him. I'll let everyone know after we talk...I might really need you all later.

 

[OrangeJulius]

@NaeNae75 I hear you! I see you! I'm sorry about this. Praying for you that it isn't as it seems! Sending you strength!

 

[NaeNae75]

@NaeNae75 I hear you! I see you! I'm sorry about this. Praying for you that it isn't as it seems! Sending you strength!

Thank you! I'm sitting here with his son in my living room watching a movie trying to figure out what to do. I don't know how to deal with this right now.


I mean, am I just a back up plan now after 9 years?

 

[Sweetpea76]

What makes you think they are dating?

 

[EveHarrington]

They could just be “talking”....

You know, the biggest get around/denial term EVER!

 

[NaeNae75]

What makes you think they are dating?

His son told me they've been over the a few times in the last couple of weeks, that they facetime on and off, and they talk on the phone most nights. He's not the kind to spend that kind of time on other people. I have no proof...but it seems likely.

 

[NaeNae75]

They could just be “talking”....

You know, the biggest get around/denial term EVER!

Exactly. He has problems with ED, so it's possible that they aren't having intercourse, but it still hurts.