Dom Violence Poisonous Marriage

[DeeDee000]

Independence is a learned thing. Not something we're born knowing how to do.

Not knowing how to be ind...

Yes, independence is something we learn. I learn a bit more every day. It's the thought of being by myself and taking care of everyday tasks is scarying. This is related to my social phobia, I get very anxious only if I have to make a call for some appointment. It's not that I wouldn't know what to do, but I have an inexplainable fear of daily tasks and it's frustrating.

 

[DeeDee000]

I understand that. We come to marriage with open hearts, and it is quite shocking to deal with the raw r...

Going to therapy made me understand feelings and people in a different knew way. Few months ago I was reading a book "When panic attacks " by Dr. David Burns, and it gave me a total new perspective about how to respond to my own anxiety. Then my therapist recommended me one book "The proof of heaven " by Dr. Eben Alexander, which gave me a larger view over the life purpose.
I have studied 11 years of French, beginning from primary school, it was mandatory. The teacher was boring so I lost the motivation during those years.

 

[velvetheart]

the best thing to do is leave and go back where you lived before you married him.
if he wants the marriage to work then he will get clean.
if he is a genuinely good person when he is clean there is a possibility it will work out but dont lie to yourself.
abusers are evil whether they use or do not use...it is just way worse when they use.