My molester told me never to talk about "this" (He said, "This didn't happen."). My parents said that I stopped talking when I was very young, after I had started to form a few words. They said I would talk in gibberish, and that was until I was about three and a half years old. Then I finally broke through that and started to speak a bit. My mind blocked out the molestations, but I know somehow my mother found out when I was about six, and she and daddy forbade my grandparents access to our home. They also refused to visit them. My grandmother would call me and we would talk, but no one ever spoke to my molester again. The family disowned him.
None the less, I did not ever remember the molestations until I was in my mid thirties. It was uncovered in a therapy session. I was so traumatized by it that I never went back to that therapist. Later I asked my parents if they knew, but they didn't want to talk about it. In a strange way, my father admitted to knowing about it by saying "It is past the statute of limitations." This is a law in the USA that protects those who are guilty by making it unlawful to press charges against someone after a certain period of time. Apparently he felt some kind of guilt concerning the whole matter by saying this. I am guessing that he knew it was going on, but did nothing to stop it.
Either that, or maybe it had been done to him when he was a child and so he'd thought it was "normal." Like, since he was a victim too or something. My mother must have been the one who tell him that it was not "normal" and to make the decision to forbid my grandparents access to our house. This is what I think happened anyway.
