General Sick Of Him On Facebook All The Time!!!!

[NewWife777]

He hasn't been talking to these women anymore, at least that what he has told me. We've talked and we both agree we want this marriage to work. So I guess we'll take it a day at a time. And I have you guys to vent to :)

 

[nursenurse]

I called my guy on something similar, friended 10 women in 1 evening. Has never checked out my blog, which I send a blanket notification about on FB when I have a new posting. Yet he liked pictures etc of those girls. He became angry, hasn't spoken to me since (2 weeks, I work out of province). So, for me it is pretty much over when I get home tomorrow.

If your guy took your feelings into account and is trying to rebuild your trust, then go for it. But keep your eyes open. He has to want and earn your trust back. That will take time.

 

[NewWife777]

Definitely keeping my eyes open, but I have hope :)

 

[Sweetpea76]

You know your own limits NewWife, and once he understands what they are, and knows that those your your boundaries things will get a lot easier. Communication is key. Sometimes the way you have to communicate seems cold and unromantic, but it is easier if you have those discussions. My vet and I call it "the business" of dealing with his PTSD.

There is a great book called "The Post Traumatic Stress Disorder Relationship: How to Support Your Partner and Keep Your Relationship Healthy" by Diane England. Besides being a good starter book for understanding PTSD, there is a chapter on how to communicate and resolve conflict that is really really helpful.

Once all these issues are discussed rationally, it is amazing how much of a weight off the chest it is.

 

[NewWife777]

Thank you for the info Sweetpea, I appreciate it!