Hi KK, There is a supporter area on the PTSD Forum which you may want to check out. As well the Wiki site on that forum does have loads of info, where questions like yours are discused. As for this Forum, it is mostly a chat room, where veterans can vent and support each other through rough times. Some times these ramblings are very personnal, and phrased in ways that other veterans can understand. Having non veterans on this Forum may cause some members to limit their contributions. No one wants to be judged, or misunderstood.
As this is one of the few places where veterans can feel safe and actually air their thoughts, perhaps your membership would be better over at the othere Forum. I appreciate your dedication to your Veteran, but please understand that we need this site. A place where we can say everything, and not be judged by others. The PTSD Forum also has members with Combat PTSD as well. I'm Zipperhead there to. I hope to see you there, and maybe we can help each other.