This Site Is For Helping People, Not For Creeps

[PandaBear12212]

Really just fuming mad right now. This site is to help others with PTSD or for supporters of PTSD. NOT for people just to creep on blogs for fun to know everyone's business. I post my personal stories on here so that other people with PTSD can relate to me or supporters can understand. However I recently found out that one of my "friends" has been stalking my blog, reading all of my PERSONAL business just when he's "bored" for "fun".

This, is not fun. This is a serious website. And I feel violated that someone would read my personal business just for "fun". I don't need comments saying "well you posted it on the internet." I know that. But I posted it here for supporters and sufferers, not for people just to be nosy. And I'm literally shaking and nauseous I'm so mad. I really hope he reads this. Because it needs to stop. This isn't just for his personal sadistic reading pleasure. It's serious stuff. :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

 

[Deleted member 1860]

How did your friend find out you are here?

 

[PandaBear12212]

I have no clue

 

[anthony]

This site is to help others with PTSD or for supporters of PTSD. NOT for people just to creep on blogs for fun to know everyone's business.

I'm sorry, but I think you're wrong. It isn't for you, or me, to say who can read this website. You don't want to hear the truth, which you stated, being if you put it online. Sorry, but you are trying to negate the truth of your own actions, and they are your actions. If you put it on the web, anywhere, then you no longer control who reads what you write.

He was honest with you, I don't see how that makes him a creep or any such thing. You want to blame him, when you are to blame in actuality. No different than I am at fault if I don't like someone reading my stuff... I don't get to authorise person by person reading what I put on the web. That control is removed from me the moment I hit send, then Google grabs it and does who knows what with the content.

Sorry, but I think you're blaming the wrong person.

 

[PandaBear12212]

No I'm not trying to negate anything. I know I posted on the internet but this is NOT a site for him to read my personal business for fun. He didn't admit to me what he did, I found out on my own. I'm not to blame for anything.

 

[Justmehere]

If he isn't telling you directly, and has not admitted to reading things here, then how are you finding out he is reading here for fun and because he is bored? I'm sorry, I'm trying to follow.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

I'd be kinda creeped out that someone found out I was here...if I were you. Is he stalking your online activity?

 

[anthony]

Did you ever read the member rights document before posting online here, because you're honestly being naive right now to think you can justify to yourself that you aren't at fault for writing publicly here, thus allowing anyone to read what you write, being their right.

This point I wrote: If you think MyPTSD is your "safe place", then you need to seriously check the reality of where you are right now. This is the Internet, there is no such thing as a "safe place" on the Internet.

[DLMURL]https://www.myptsd.com/c/articles/member-rights.29/[/DLMURL]

I understand you may feel your privacy was violated because it was your friend, but do you not honestly realise that there are thousands of strangers reading what you write here, every day?

 

[PandaBear12212]

Because we were both sitting in the student lounge in the student center but I was behind him and he didn't see me. On his screen I saw he was on myPTSD. When I looked closer I realized he was reading my blogs. And its NOT just for his viewing pleasure. And he then admitted to a friend that he reads my blogs constantly for "fun". And he has admitted to me before how he just reads other people's stuff just to make him feel better about himself.

 

[PandaBear12212]

Again anthony you aren't helping. I know my intentions, you don't. And I am not trying to put the blame on someone else. So just stop.

 

[anthony]

Define stalking though @Solara

Is that every guest here who has chosen to read any specific author upon this site, to check in and read them because they like what they post, they find it interesting, they relate? What difference is it from a stranger to a friend? If the friend was posting in response to you all over the web, I would place stalker upon them... but a friend, or even acquaintance, who reads you online? How is that stalking?

 

[PandaBear12212]

@Solara I think he his. He's a computer geek. I seriously have no idea how he found me here. But he has admitted to me that he reads other people's negative stories (like on the FML site) to make himself feel better. He really needs to get help for such a poor demeanor.