To Date or Not

[Nicolette]

I don't want to get into a relationship and change the partner--I want to be in a relationship with a guy who is in shape and already has awareness of what he eats. I can't sweep incompatibility under the carpet.

Very impressive Midi. You have no idea how many women make excuses for men or think they can change them and then wonder why they end up in a disastrous relationship. Well done to you :thumbs-up

 

[midi]

Aye, thanks! I know that right now, it's kind of overwhelming--even just the fact that I went on a date--so I'm flooded with mixed emotions and the positives and negatives and I'm processing it. There are women out there that would most certainly have snagged him and attempted to "mold" him into what they wanted and there are women who would have found him quite compatible with their own values and would have enjoyed everything about him.

It was only a date and yet it's turning into a major learning process. I hope others get something out of it too.

 

[becvan]

I'm impressed! You are looking for the positive and learning from it. Way to go!:occasion::occasion:

bec

 

[pandora]

Great self reflection..do not settle, you are way worth so much better and if you have and feel a red flag now, trust your gut! Way to go, I am proud of you too!