Try Forgiveness Or Gentleness?

[Tanishq]

Be realistic in your goals, and realistic in the timing .

:laugh: Thanks for offering this insight. You know what made me laugh at myself right now, I do the first part very well, but don't do the later part of timing. :facepalm: :hilarious:

Thank you.

 

[Tanishq]

I try to externalize it.

Can you please explain this to me? This externalization terms is bit new for me.

If nothing else, be fair

Yes, I do make the things complicated. Makes sense to me, it doesn't need to be complicated. I can see, if I am fair to things won't get complicated and won't hurt me. Very interesting insight.

Thank you shimmerz.

 

[crystaltear]

You're welcome! Let us know how you go :)

 

[Tanishq]

@City Slicker Great support from you and I appreciate this. :)

I do much better when I do not achieve a stated goal than when I fail to achieve an expectation.

Same here. I understand this is very helpful to me.

I think that stated goals are easier to navigate - unspoken expectations unlock the motherload of guilt.

Well said, exactly this is how I feel the guilt.

Speaking to myself when I begin to feel guilt lets me know there has usually been an expectation there that maybe i wasn't aware of before. And then lots and lots and lots of gentleness smooths the path.

:D You know that I want to walk the path gentleness. You showed me a way with a safety hint. Thanks so much friend. :)

 

[Tanishq]

@crystaltear Sure I will update it here after sometime. Like say a month. :)