Ungrateful?

[Recovery4Me]

Do you really want someone (who isn't your T) to keep asking questions, that potentially get deeper and more personal?

I pulled this out from among a large assortment of wonderful commentary from everyone because it resonated in a thought provoking manner.

For me, I have actually moved forward by a few loving (and relentlessly astute...lol) members within my diary. Some of their questions have given me gas pains as they were so on direction and/or target...:clown: However, without their intel or take...I would have remained in a danger zone because of my denial and/or aversion to facing some crisis management stuff.

So for me, the answer for on the board is, "Yes!" I can always just log off and come back after my :poop:panic attack.:roflmao: To me, who knows better the walk than the others walking, you know? But then...that's just me.
:hug::hug:

 

[Carolynne]

mate ! i used to give unsolicited advice. It was my way of feeling in control. its horrid and demeaning being the recipient....ive found now the roles are reversed that Ive ended up believing that everyone has a completely different view on everything and the only advice to follow is your own (hope thats not advice !) ha