Sexual Assault Was I Sexually Assaulted, or Did I Cheat?

[Ubergirl]

Nope. Not at all. Being honest about my reaction to someone I love being hurt & lying to me about it? Has almost nothing to do about them. It’s MY reaction, to THEM a) being hurt & b) lying to me.

It doesn’t mean I don’t understand the impulse. On the contrary, it tells me exactly how little I can trust them about anything important.

Lack of empathy? Would be not giving a f*ck if someone is being raped. Over, and over, and over.

Hey I just wanted to say that perhaps my reaction is because I identify with OP and know what it’s like to give in to people who you don’t want to have sex with because you’re vulnerable.
Basically you don’t have a lot of options and these pieces of suit know that.

What you said may be not what OP needed to hear, she already blames herself and I worry her husband may be not the best for her either.
I hope he’s growing with her but some people are taken advantage of their whole lives.
I’ve seen you in other posts and you don’t seem like a bad person, you’re offering a different view but maybe just be careful, “taking their happy ass off to be raped” you really think she’s happy?
Anyway I just wanted to clarify that I was a bit triggered, I can see that we all support each other and I hope you still stay honest and give your much needed perspective